IM A 23 YEAR OLD GUY MY GIRLFRIEND IS 24, WELL MY GIRLFRIEND CALLS THIS AN OLDFASHION REALATION SHE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WERE WE DONT HAVE ANY SEX. SHOULD I SUPORT HER WAY OR SHOULD I DUMP HER????????
2006-08-17 15:00:58 · 18 answers · asked by friscotx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes support her life is worth the wait and beside every old fashion relationship i know of has lasted for 20+years and that is wonderful to spend the rest of your life with a person you know you can trust and who will never turn their back on you. So give it a chance and who knows you might get sex after all.
2006-08-17 15:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, take off your caps lock before you type PLEASE!
Next, why are you asking us? We don't know her...if you like her and want to be with her, then stay...if not having sex is a deal breaker for you, then end the relationship (don't "DUMP" her...she's not garbage)...
You have to decide how important the sex issue is...that's not for us to say, we don't know where you stand on the issue or if you feel she's worth waiting for...
2006-08-17 22:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question you will find it very difficult to support her in this. You should tell her the truth: that you want to have sex and that is more important to you than being with her. That way you won't have to dump her; she will dump you.
2006-08-17 22:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you should make a best effort to support her, perhaps there's a reason why she doesn't want to have sex.
Dumping her.. would be a cold and selfish thing to do cause she won't have sex.
It'll all pay off in time. Be patient!
2006-08-17 22:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a few questions....Is she worth it? Is the love y'all have strong enough? Can you resist the temptation to go out and have sex with somebody else? Will this help or hurt the relationship?.....only you can decide what you need to do.
2006-08-17 22:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, your "brain" isnt happy with this decision, and since you are shallow enough to ask this question, then go ahead and dump her......
You would be doing HER a favor!
2006-08-17 22:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are not ready for a relationship with her. You have different values than she does.
2006-08-17 22:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's someone you care about and is worth having in your life support her.
2006-08-17 22:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Luna V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you can't wait, so I would do the old fashion thing if you love her.
2006-08-17 22:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like her sex should not be an issue its better when things just happen spontaneously
2006-08-17 22:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by firered 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋