We went for a drink and a cheap meal at a local pub tonight and had quite a good time until it came to going home. As we were both drinking we decided to get the bus home.
Instead of going to the nearest bus stop, my partner, started walking towards home and said that we had better get the bus from after the traffic lights, which seemed like it was nearly half-way home. We missed 4 buses, whilst we were walking. I was annoyed, so moaned about it. He was really rude to me and called me names. I was so mad, that I said I did not want to be near him, so I would walk home.
I ended up walking home on my own, and even had to wallk past the end of the road where Sally Anne was murdered. I was actually quite scared, as it was quite dark and quiet.
My partner never bothered to come after me or to ring me to see if I was ok.
I am probably looking for sympathy and people to take my side, but you can tell me what you really think, if it's not too harsh!
2006-08-17 13:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
alcohol + tiredness = row.
he is probably thinking about it as much as you are.
Talk to him and explain how scared you were, give him a chance to apologise. We all say things we regret when we are drunk after all you told him you didn't want to be near him.
Good luck
2006-08-17 19:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you think. Tell him you enjoyed the meal and apologise for moaning so much, but also let him know you didn't and don't appreciate him calling you names. Two words. Guilt Trip. Make him feel guilty that he left you alone. Talk things through, it may just have been the drink making him act weird.
2006-08-17 15:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by cooljumpingmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartless git...dump him!
Mind you, i would have shat myself if i walked past somewhere someone had been murdered, only comfort thing there, is that it would be unlikely two tragedies like people being murdered, to occur in the same spot.
2006-08-17 14:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him for a week, an drink makes u say silly stuff, be safe in future an get a taxi xx
2006-08-17 13:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...ohhh should'nt have walked with him. being that callous guy he is, just dump him, nevermind how he feels, dont resent my dear. past is past... take a walk...geez... rethink your relationship with him if you would still be seeing yourself walking with him in the next few months or years... or you'll end up walking towards one hell of wasted time with him...
2006-08-17 16:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sheepish TinTin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol and Emotional Abuse. Could be a song we all sing from time to time.
2006-08-17 14:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by qwestionz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever leave the side of your b/f at night. he might be a pain in the as's but hes your safety. tell him never to leave you alone again or you'll leave him alone permenantly!
2006-08-17 16:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
male pride? bruised ego? who knows! might just ne narked that it went from good to bad so quick, talk to him, if you let it fester it'll get worse
2006-08-17 13:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he put you in a dangerous situation with his pride
what if something happened to you ?
how could he have rectified that?
what does he say to that?
2006-08-17 13:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋