okay im a guy i recently turned 15 and i today i was just about to explode u kno y?! bec. my parents drive me nuts!, they like2 assume things. okay so here: i was in my room w. the door closed and they shouted "u clsed the door so no1 can c u on the comp (on IM)" and i was like "im reading" and i was reading damn it i hav summer reading2 do and i was like just about to tell them whats up!!!! ugh it makes me very angry that they think im always doing other things. they assumme a LOT of stuff about me that actually isnt true. help?!
2006-08-17 13:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've become a recent fan of this philosophy: stand up to your parents. What's the worst that can happen? No offense to them, I'm sure they're lovely people, but if you're not actually doing anything wrong, then they need to be told that. There's nothing worse than being told off for something you didn't even do, and trust me, I know exactly how you feel. Be brave and stand up for yourself. Or at least give it a try.
2006-08-17 13:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're assuming things then prove them wrong, open the door and let them stare at the screen. (I can understand if you want you privacy though) parents are there to be suspicious. It means they care about you. Be thankful your parents pay attention and even notice the door is closed, they be really stupid sometimes but that doesn't mean they don't love you.
2006-08-17 20:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, parents are NOT there to be suspitious! You need to let them know that you have private things in your life and that they just need to trust you. What, are parents supposed to be reading journals to? Heck no! If they want to find something out they should ask you directly, not snoop around or harass you. Straight Up!
2006-08-17 20:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by jessica72487 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO I would have to say just prove it too them. Whenever they accuse you of doing somthing that your not really doing call them and let them see what your doing. You could have a witness verify it or have a camcorder or somthing to prove it. Other than that i would have to say dont let it get to you too much since it is really not a serious thing to worry about. You will get over it in time.
2006-08-17 20:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by afrprince77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo pj p, have u ever been disonnest so they don't trust u. 'cause my parents do that sometimes 2o. yo man, if u wanna talk just e-mail me at bluebuddytlb@yahoo.com. p.s. I am a girl. p.s.s. around ur age....^^
2006-08-17 20:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by ALB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my mom. i just think to myself only 2 more years.
2006-08-17 20:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is talk to them. Explain to them how you feel.
2006-08-17 20:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tis live man.........deal!
2006-08-17 20:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋