I was 13 when i lost my virginity. Was i to young? Alot of ppl tell me i was, but it didnt feel wrong and i dont regret it.
2006-08-17 13:17:32 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There is no number or age i can put on this. If you are old enouph to understand the risks, and you know how to protect yourself. Then you are old enouph.
2006-08-17 13:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is amazing to read the responses to such an illogical question. If it felt good/ since you don't have any regrets, and so on.....the truth is, my dear, you must have some regrets or you woudn't be asking this question. And just because something may feel good does not invoke one to do it. I imagine it would feel pretty darn good to bring an end to the miserable wretch who stole over $2,000 of my tools, but it would neither be right nor would I feel better about it in the end. And yes, 13 is way to young to be doing something that was meant for responsible married adults. Having sexual intercourse is the way babies are formed, and there are NO 13 year olds ready nor able to care for themselves let alone another human being. GROW UP, HONEY!
2006-08-17 13:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how old are you now, don't you think you are only asking cause you regret it? or looking for support cause your other partner or new partner has a problem with it? and at the age of 13 you would not feel wrong about it or regret it, you just think you are and did show your adult hood, if you have not grown up now you will some day and live to regret it, that which you have done. and I don't say this as a preacher but as some one who has been their done that.
2006-08-17 13:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by gamemanual 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK if you don't regret it and if it didn't feel wrong to you. Why are you asking when you feel this way as though your on the defense before anyone answers? Yes I feel that 13 is to young.
2006-08-17 13:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says he was 13, I was 19 (it wasn't with him by the way) It felt right for me when I was 19, and I definately wasn't ready at 13. He says he was ready at 13, I've seen pictures of him he had facial hair and looked alot older. I think some people develop a lot younger than others, but I would have a fit if I thought my kids would have sex at 13. It's one of those things. I was horrified when he told me how young he was, but he seems okay with it. I lived in Africa were girls had sex as soon as they reached puberty. I think its a societal thing. Only you can decide whats right for you, as long as its your choice.
2006-08-17 13:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Human Sexuality class in college said most youths are losing their virginity between 8-10 on average, This is way Young in my eyes but your generation is going to have to decide that. If I have kids I am going to watch them like a Hawk until they are 15. I am sure I will be considered "old fashion" but if I can give them a few extra years of youth it will be worth it.
2006-08-17 13:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....If you don't regret it then why are you asking? If you are not worried about it then you wouldn't be asking this question. I think that you do feel guilty for what you did. Common sense will tell you that you are too young
Ask yourself this question. Are you ready to become pregnant? Are you ready to hold a full time job to support that child? Are you ready to dedicate your life to that child and give up your social activities?
Well.......think about that and then think about whether or not you were old enough to be having sex.
What would your parents say?
2006-08-17 13:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmmmm 13!
2006-08-17 13:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Freesia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes too young I'm sorry you had to do that that early, if you're not worried about it then that's that, its your life but i lost mine at 16 and thankfully it was to the right person and the only person.
you shouldn't be proud , i think no one under the age of 18 should be doing it, its kind of gross. but i want my kids to not make that move until they re at least 18 but 20 would be preferable.its not a cool thing to do its personal and everyone should respect themselves
2006-08-17 13:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um YES, u don't? over 60% do regret it. Not yet maybe. Wait until ur older. Married. U will regret it. It's fact. U disgust me. Only people like u don't.
2006-08-17 13:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if u was married it would be ok... but 13 is abit young for marriage in today's world.
2006-08-17 13:23:19 · answer #11 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋