I love having sex with my boyfriend and we do it almost everyday that we are together. He is leaving for college in a week (5 hours away) and im not sure how im going to be able to handle the seperation. He is also worried im going to cheat on him (i never would!!!) What should i do to stay sane, and what should i tell him to make him believe me!!
2006-08-17 13:11:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, sweetie.....HE is the one going away to college!! Why should you be the one to have to prove anything? Could it be that he is trying to take the focus off of him? There are going to be new people evrywhere so the chances that he is going to be "true" to you is pretty slim to none. My son had a girlfriend when he went off to college (went from Ohio to Texas). Well, to make a long story short, he has been in Texas for 13 years and married his college sweetheart.he never looked back! Don't lock yourself up and miss out on life. Trust me, he is going to be having a really great time!
2006-08-17 13:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long Distance, doesn't give you much choice. It's up to him to trust you, when he is away. You have to trust him too, with all those Coeds around him all day and night.
Keep in close touch via Phone and E-mail, IM if you can too.
You could try phone sex, or cyber sex, to help each other out.It 's not the best things, but might be of some good for you both.
Sadly long distance romances, don'r work well. Hopefully, he can get home weekends.
2006-08-17 13:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can tell him that will make him believe you. He just has to trust you on his own. Continue to show interest in him so that he knows you care for him a lot. And was far as the seperation goes. I suggest you buy a vibrator or some other kind of sex toy to keep yourself stimulated. I know it might not be as good as the real think but it's still better than nothing at all.
2006-08-17 13:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by TheOne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend moved to Florida ( I live in Michigan ). We talk everyday about what we did and who we are hanging out with. Everything is out in the open. I recently hung out with an ex-boyfriend and just hearing him say "I trust you" really made me feel like I don't need anyone else but him. He got me a promise ring before he left. I'm 19 and we've been dating for 2 years so I guess it depends on your age and how long you've been in the relationship for.
If you guys talk everyday and have been honest thus far, there should be nothing to worry about. Makes a good vaca too when you go see him!
2006-08-17 13:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by jessica72487 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men, by default, are pretty paranoid when it comes to going away from their girlfriends. Assure him that he can trust you and if he doesn't believe you, then, well, maybe he doesn't love you as much as you think - give him a chance though, just keep assuring him you'd never cheat on him. Men need to be told everything (and I am one, so, trust me!) As for the sex, you're going to have to just make do until you can meet with him. The sex will probably be better the less you have it, though, no? Something to look forward too, I'd say.
2006-08-17 13:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worried about him being 5 hours away??? Just think about all these wives and girlfriends that have men over in Iraq. Go to an adult store and buy a vibrator or a dildo and make due with that.. They seem to do it for a year or longer just fine.
2006-08-17 13:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by nonamedcreature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he actually trusts you he would believe you. You must of done something that he didn't like, or maybe he is just being a jerk. Maybe you should be saying what he says, and see what he says to you. If that makes any sense. Get both sides of it.
2006-08-17 13:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him one last time and make it the best you ever had.
2006-08-17 13:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But with all them good looking girls at college, and all the frat parties, and all the drinking, do you think he will be true to you
2006-08-17 13:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will most probably find another chic at school, accept it. Start dating another as soon as he left for college.
2006-08-17 13:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Eureka!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋