I have a boyfriend that I love but he is away now. And... I have this guy friend that is interested in me and he wants to become more than friends and he also knows that I'm in a relationship. He wants me to leave my boyfriend for him. So I need your advice on what I should do?
2006-08-17 13:00:50 · 32 answers · asked by Jme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I cant tell you who you like more that's for you to decide sorry. But since your thinking of leaving your boyfriend (Which should had never came into your mind if you really liked him) I would say you like your guy friend more. Your young you have the right to go out with as much boys as you want. Your boyfriend will be sad but he should had treated you that much better:).Good Luck.
2006-08-17 13:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ziggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think memphis is on the right track , you've got a b/friend that you say you love, that should be the end of it!!!.,If this other guy is trying his luck while knowing your in a relationship he is just a sleaze and will probably try the same thing with other girls without thinking of the consequences, he's only thinking about emptying his balls in your belly!!.
You dont explain why or where and for how long your b/friend is away, also how long you've been together and also how old you both are, but in the end , if your in a relationship you should be faithful.
2006-08-17 13:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I got a deeper question for you. Do you truly love him? There are times when love is not easy if fact; it can get pretty rough at times. You stick with the one you love. However; if your boyfriend was just a fling then go ahead and beak up with the boyfriend.
I would love to answer the question more definitively. However; the exact answer depends on a search of yourself.
2006-08-19 08:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your guy-friend isn't much of a friend. Sounds like he was just waiting for the right time to strike.
My best advice is to just be friends with the guy-friend by limiting contact with him while your boyfriend is away.
2006-08-17 13:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by trisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love your boyfriend, then explain to your guy friend that you love your boyfriend and do not want to hurt. also tell him you dont wish to be more then friends, and you value your friend ship with him, but if he cant helndle just being friends then the friendship really shoudl end. because he cant be a friend worth having if hes not willing to honor your decision.
BUT if you like this friend as more then a friend, then you really shoudl end thigns with your boyfriend, because its not fair to him if you arnt totaly comited to him. but if you do break up with him, i wouldnt go out with your guy friend for atleast a month or two, otherwise people may call you aslut.
2006-08-17 13:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by purplestar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off why is ur boyfriend away and if you are thinking of leaving your man obviously you dont love him like you should! i mean you cant have your cake and eat it too not to sound rude but you need to figure out what you want
2006-08-17 13:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Away? Where? How long? Is he coming back? Tell him don't be too long and I can think of a few reasons why:
1) Move your meat lose your seat
2) Out of sight out of mind
3) When the cat's away the mouse will play
2006-08-17 13:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it unless things are not going well with your boyfriend. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence until we get over there then we realize that it's not so green. Stick with your man if you love him.
2006-08-17 13:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously want to pursue this new guy otherwise you wouldn't be needing help deciding, its your life and your decision whether good or bad and therefore you will have to live with the consequences there are thousands of answers for a question like this , which makes it all that much harder to answer.but follow your heart in a ll instances.
2006-08-17 13:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this new guy a fill-in because you are lonely? Be sure you know what you are doing before you jump in. Don't cheat on your current boyfriend. That could backfire in your face.
2006-08-17 13:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋