My husband and I were married for seven years. To make a long story short, his children came to live with us from another country and all hell broke loose. He moved out with the children but refused to give me his address or home phone. Only way I can get in touch with him is thru his cell phone. He states since the children does't like me I don't have anything with the home address, but when he wants go to bed with me, i feel he's wrong. What do you think. I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing about not sleeping with him.
2006-08-17 12:49:47 · 21 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The question is do you think there's anything wrong? How many women have you talked to who sleep with their husband but don't know where he lives?
Why in the world would you put up with this? You basically have no husband until he feels like coming to see you. Do you have any pride at all?
Get out of this stupid relationship. You need a husband who is willing to actually be part of the marriage. Tell him to keep his kids and unknown address. You don't need him anymore. Tell him he is not acting like a husband so just stay out of your life.
2006-08-17 12:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by not letting him use you by sleeping with him. He sounds like he may have a live in girlfriend or another wife.You need to do a search online for his whereabouts.search your county's tax records for pd car taxes. It will give you his current address. Check by the years and it will tell you if he has been in the same city and the address. Then go see a lawyer and file for divorce. Get on with your life, you deserve better. Dont sleep with him, you dont know what he may have,or who he has been with. Good luck
2006-08-17 13:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Terry E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of you not getting along with his kids he is still ur husband and u should know where he lives. it sames like he doesnt trust u enough to know u want say or do anything mean to his kids. No i wouldnt sleep with him. but be prepared for a possible end of ur marriage he already isnt at home so... maybe some of him my be better than none of him. think everything through completely. Good luck
2006-08-17 12:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by ice solid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your GUT feelings you are not wrong for not sleeping with him. I think the reason why he will not give you the address is b/c he is having other "extra" activities. In other words he has someone else who does know where he live who visits on a regular basis.
2006-08-17 12:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man sounds like he's married to someone else.If you are married why not tell you where he lives and kids don't run the house.He's using you to get what he wants and I bet he have a wife at home.Are you sure that he's married to you?Because you don't act like your the wife.More like the women on the side.
2006-08-17 13:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's something that should have been addressed before you even said I Do something in that picture just doesn't seem right to me
2006-08-17 12:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Danette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has another wife. When you feel wrong it's your gut telling you to get our. You should leave this dirty man. You can find someone way better for you.
2006-08-17 13:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by glamr216 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend, you've got to be kidding me ?!
your man has his woman at home and you are just his booty call. i'm surprised you don't have a frien who has smacked some sense in to you, cause apparently when your husband left he took it with him.not to knock you but...it's time to regain control of yourself and have some self worth. there are many more fish to be captured in the sea, and no hooks attached.
good luck
2006-08-17 12:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by helenstiti 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wheres your self respect?????????????????? He allows his kids to come between you?? And then he wont let you know where he is living??
Come on, smarten up, dont let him use you like that, it is WRONG... He has NO business using you for only sex, and you are foolish for allowing him........ You ARE doing the right thing, and stick with it!
2006-08-17 12:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Katz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isnt treating you like a wife. He is treating you like a sex object. He doesnt love you, divorce him and move on.
2006-08-17 12:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by robbet03 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋