Partner and I have a young daughter and don't get much time to ourselves. Any good tips for keeping the romance alive? Rekindling our love for each other? We seem to always be tired and, as a result, kind of snappy at each other... HELP!
2006-08-17 12:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Lucy Goosey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well this is going to be easy! I have 3 little girls at home ages 5, 2 and 11 months!
Believe me, we don't have time for each other either!
My best advice would be to get away at least one a week and if you go for a walk, movies whatever you do, Do Not,I repeat, Do Not, talk about the kids, you need to focus on the two of you , that way you can reconnect and get your love life back on track, you would not believe how refreshed you would feel when you come back to your daughter after you have some time away! And also, try once a month, to get a whole day away and leave your daughter with grandma, it will be good for you two and grandma and also for the baby, she will learn that it is o.k. to be away from you! You will reap the benefits of a much renew intimate life and a happier outlook on life in general! Kids are wonderful, but you have to make time for the two of you, so that your daughter sees a good example of what a good marriage should be like! I hope this helps, Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-18 11:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some time to spend together alone (get somebody to babysit). You could go to a hotel for the weekend and try and remember why you're together in the first place. Obviously, you need to re-light the flames of passion that you once had, and getting away to a place where you don't have to worry about anything will help you to get along. Things don't need to be "stale". Being alone together with nothing at all to worry about will set the stage for you to recall how you used to be, and, hopefully, it'll make you realise how much you like each other, too.
2006-08-17 12:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you have sex, role play. If for instance if you do pirates, then even when you don't get along, one of you can slap on an eyepatch and rekindle those feelings.
2006-08-17 12:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try swinging r couples on cam 2 cam
2006-08-17 12:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by jesbur35 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kinky role playing, he can be the doctor and you can be his naughty nurse
2006-08-17 12:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by yummycookie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋