im so lonely!!! what do i do?

Question

two of my friends live in another place so i hardly see or talk to them. 1 friend went to another school. i got in a fight with nother friend then she moved. 1 friend got held back so i never see or talk to her. 2 friends moved. 1 is moving in 3 weeks. i dont talk to one because... well i dont know why. we just stopped talking. so now i have 2 friends left. 1 is a friend of a friend and the other might be moved up a grade. i want more friends but its not as easy as it looks cuz some b*tch started a rumor that i was gothic and pratciced voodoo even though almost everybody at my school is too ignorant to know what they mean they assume they are bad. now whenever someone comes up to talk to me they ask if im gothic or do voodoo then leave. what do i do??? please help.

also all the idiot rednecks at my school believe what almost anyone tells them unless it is someone trying to defend themselves froem what other people say.

also all the idiot rednecks at my school believe what almost anyone tells them unless it is someone trying to defend themselves froem what other people say.

oops. didnt mean to add that twice.

Answer 1

I can relate to your loneliness but you need to learn to be your best friend first.. Friends will come and friends will go but you are with you forever.. Never let yourself down or feel the blues, besides, a pet can be your second best friend too but even they eventually leave. Good luck....

Answer 2

You obviously have had plenty friends in the past so it's nothing to do with you as a person. Your'e just going through one of those phases where there has been a lot of change. Don't worry about stupid rumours, if you just ignore it the idiots will find someone else to gossip about.

You sound like an intelligent sensitive girl. You will find plenty friends as time goes on. Just carry on being yourself, find an after school club or interest where other young people go, have fun and get chatting, its amazing how people of like minds find each other, you only have to put yourself out there. It sounds like you are approaching a new phase of your life, finding out who you really are. You also have two friends more than a lot of truly lonely people out there in the big bad world!

Rather than worrying about feeling lonely try to think of this as a new and exciting phase in your life. You don't know what might happen, but that's the whole point. Life would be boring if it always stayed the same and we had no fresh mountains to conquer.

Good luck, I'm sure you don't need it though.

Answer 3

So you do know how to make friends. Can't you do that again? Make friends somewhere else than in school. Once you've got some friends you'll probably feel better about yourself and when you feel better about yourself and not so desperate, people at school ( that don't listen to the b*tch, there must be people who do have a mind of their own) will be more inclined to include you into their group of friends. Maybe you can make a joke out of the goth/voodoo thing and wear a t-shirt that says: NO I'm NOT into Voodoo, thank you very much! Or something like that.

Answer 4

I feel sorry for the so moving friends of yours. Change is good
Keep yourself open to new friends. Don't know about your race as I am black and All I know is they are up to not good agendas.
Try to attract the type of friends you want to have by your career goals and seek them. Then I do not know about the spirit stuff other than God covers all. Seek religion to get a base on where you want to be in the endtimes. Go to forgive the rumors answer to no one but God. I quit speaking to people who put me down and people who do not do things I want to be associated with.
Things get better. The net is the best thing to keep in touch with the friends and keep communication open get numbers and in time the old friends may forget you. When people move new things come in new ideas and new people. It is like the Simpson's episode where Bart destroyed Lisa's ant colony and they came back stronger and made her their Queen. They think they have destroyed you and got the best of you and in your lonely times you just work on yourself inside cry a lot and them become stronger to make a comeback. Get into music and do things to entertain yourself. Exercise opens up frustration and walking to clear your head. It is like evolution to come back better and stronger 6 million dollar bionic woman better.

Answer 5

Take some Zanax and settle down. Serioulsy I know it matters to you now, but I have been out of School 7 years now and don't talk to 1 single person. You will get over it.

Or just turn the tables on them.

Answer 6

If you are lonely, it's YOUR fault. There are tons of other people that could use your friendship! Go to a coffee shop and meet some folks, and be a good listener, you will have butt loads of Friends! :)

Answer 7

stop caring what people think about you and reject the labels placed upon you by stupid people,Just ignore the jackasses who come up to you and say that crap
P.S.I'll be on aim all frickin night if you need any other advice,my Screen name on aim is PsyKo0016( capital P capital K )

Answer 8

We all go through those phases. Just be a good friend and you will keep making good friends. When friends cause you trouble they are not friends:-)

Answer 9

if you think making friends is hard, why not try making enemies. your friends need to move so don't fight with them. making enemies is just like making friends but with a negative approach.and enemies can also become friends.who knows?!

Answer 10

try looking for new friends on mate 1 good luck