I Know This Is Nasty But My GF wants Me 2 Finger Her Clit But I Dont Know How!!! Could U Tell Me In Detail Thx!
2006-08-17 12:16:47 · 22 answers · asked by sexiboy5010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't you think this question would be better answered by a girl? After all, we know how to touch it better than most guys :D
The clit is like a little pea that sits at the very top of the girly-bits: just below where the lips start to part.
A good start would be small circular motions: like you are polishing a little gem with the flat of your fingers: firmly, but not so much that you'll squash (think of how you like to have that really sensitive section on the outerside of your penis, where the head joins that shaft, touched...). The clit is VERY sensitive (almost as many nerve endings in that little organ as inyour entire penis!), so too much pressure can be PAINFUL! ...and sometimes not.
Then...ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND WHAT SHE LIKES! ;) If she doesn't know, try different speeds, different pressure, bigger or smaller circles, and ask her to tell you what feels good.
2006-08-17 12:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend is lucky to have a guy that would put her pleasure above his squeamishness.
tips:
do not be rough. the clitoris is VERY sensitive. it's not like when you jerk yourself off. many guys do not understand this.
wash your hands first. no girl wants your black fingernails in her.
start with some foreplay- get her worked up good before you head south.
if she is not already wet, put some saliva on your fingers. this feels awesome.
rub up from the opening of her vagina up to the clit. press gently into the clit as you massage it. make whorls with your finger around the opening of the vagina- do not stick your finger in there until she's orgasmed first. when you stick your finger in, press inward and upward on the part right at the entrance- it's not about how deep you go.
she will love you for this.
and if you get even braver, you can try giving her oral sex... but one day at a time, right?
2006-08-17 12:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by miss advice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are a lame and it is very easy put your fingers on the inside of the vagina and move your fingers up and down on the click( the little piece that sticks out) try a slow approach and if that doesn't do it for her then speed up until she wet the bed or tell you to stop.
2006-08-17 12:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your fingers slightly moist...either go with a slow circular motion on or aound it(pay attention to HER. She'll let you know when are doing something she likes)... or. you rapidly, but lightly graze it, with the inside of your two center fingers...or you can put the palm of your hand on her pubic bone(where her hair is or should be) , spread her lips and rest your two center fingers along down her vagina, and then keep your hand shaking rapidly(fingers and palm), but lightly, while barely moving left and right.
2006-08-17 12:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by jeninsocal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is how it goes she opens her legs and u fill all around her pussy then u play with it than u make her get really excited than u get yur middle finger and take it slowly into her pussy whole then u go faster sticking yur finger in and out and all around and then u eat her out while u fingering her
2006-08-17 12:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just rub it gently at first. Try circular motions, then up and down. Switch it up. You don't even have to press that hard. Just practice. Ask her as you are doing it if she likes it, she should tell you.
Be comfortable enough with each other to talk about your likes and dislikes in bed. It will do wonders...
2006-08-17 12:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you old enough to get on the porn sites? if so try and get some ideas from them.
if not, while you are working on your little lady, tell her to let you know when she likes something and when she doesn't. that way she can teach you without her knowing that she is teaching you.
gentle pressure, not to hard, not to soft, externally mostly with penetration here and there.
2006-08-17 12:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it cums naturally just put ur fingers were eva and ull know the rest by any chance do wanna jerk off? dats y u want "details" if so go get a life sicko ....
2006-08-17 12:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not nasty - just flick the man in the canoe
2006-08-17 12:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by skippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly advise him the locations with the aid of putting his hands the place u like him to the touch u. lots of issues can turn a guy on, no longer purely touches or grimy speaking, additionally slightly bare epidermis of your legs and tummy, to no longer communicate a pair of superb good that teach slightly the boobs. ...to instruct u on...he and u would desire to comprehend that. you are the main significant individual who can tell what turns u on. come across those issues and...prepare;)
2016-10-02 05:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by devnew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋