Okay see here is the story.I have this friend.She is my bff and we argue everyday over the stupidest things.I'm just sick of it.Can you help me please?
2006-08-17 11:58:32 · 17 answers · asked by famousgirl202 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
too much time together. take a moment away. you'll be fine!
2006-08-17 12:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you start fighting just stop and tell her you are sick of fighting and drop whatever it is you are arguing about. I found that if you are fighting a lot with 1 person then go on a vacation away from them for a few days. After a few days or weeks away from them you have stuff to talk about and you miss them so much that you are so happy to see them again that you dont argue with them for a while. Just remember is it better to be right during an arguement or have peace? If you want it to stop then if the arguement doesnt mean much just control yourself and give in and let her feel like she is right. then you will have peace.
2006-08-17 12:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a little break. You guys are getting on each others nerves. If youre in school this can be a bit difficult. If youre out of school, then do some things with family or other friends that she doesnt know. By the time you two hook up again youll have plenty of other intersting things to talk about!
2006-08-17 12:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you said "everyday" then you might be hanging out with eachother a little too much. Maybe it's time to take a break from eachother to think through things. You see, I have the same problem going on right now, and I've figured out why: it's because my friends and I are around each other too much and talking to each other too much. Perhaps it's time to take a break. Try it out, and see what happens.
2006-08-17 12:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Fighting over little things is hard on you and you don't want to do that. You need to reach an agreement and maybe she's feeling the same way.
2006-08-17 12:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is there for you no matter what , a friend supports you and boost you're self esteem even if they don't agree with you. A friend won't be afraid to tell you how they feel without worrying about you judging them. If your friend is not this way, then they are not your friend.
2006-08-17 12:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the subject instead of arguing
2006-08-17 12:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by yanially 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you argue over. Even if it's not your fault, say sorry and make up.
2006-08-17 12:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by UnR3aL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let those stupid things bother you. Let them slide off or just tell her you are not going to argue with her.
2006-08-17 12:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to argue.
when she tries to start an argument, or you sense on coming on, just quit talking until the subject is changed. it doesn't mean that you have to leave her presence, just don't talk.
2006-08-17 12:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an effort to avoid these conflicts by introducing your idea or preferance by(that's a good point or idea but what about this)
2006-08-17 12:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋