time it seems all the men in that age bracket are looking for young ladys half their age where do we fit in we need love too.
2006-08-17 11:48:27 · 23 answers · asked by Cheryl T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry, there is still hope! At the age of 35, I have finally met someone--a younger man by at least 4 years. So instead of going for the older men, why not go after the younger guys.
2006-08-17 11:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what age you are to find a true relationship. When you are comfortable with your own company and genuinely like yourself you naturally attract the right kind of people, men included. Stop looking so hard. You are probably giving off those desperate signals. Enjoy your life and men will want to be with you.You need to love yourself first !! Love does not always come in the form that women/men relationships bring.
There are many other ways to find and feel love that don't involve a man. Find something that interests you. The people you meet will have the same interests and relationships usually build from there.
2006-08-17 12:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men that age are looking for only younger women. The reason many men go for the younger women, is because 1) many women around 40 who can have children still is just looking to make a family before it's too late, and trick guys into thinking these women really love them fully, and not using them. 2) Some have children and other kinds of baggage already, and is looking for a guy who will tolerate it, not necessarily looking for the best guy for them, and some guys know when I girl loves him for who he is for real, versus just liking him enough to be with because no other guys want a girl with baggage. A guy has to feel you really do want him for him with no tricks attached.
Older men just don't want to be caught in those kinds of traps, so they go for younger women, who is less likely to be that way. Also, older women in there 40's usually demand more, or have more chips on there shoulders from life experience in the dating game, so these men avoid that by dating younger as well.
Ofcourse some men will say they only go for younger women because of their looks, but don't let that fool you. Plenty of guys your age will be into you because they'd rather be with mature women, not immature little girls. I think you should be honest to these men you want, and really show them you like them for who they are with no tricks attached. If your a genuine woman looking for real love, you should be find. Just give it some time.
Just my thoughts
2006-08-17 12:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This older male is amusing himself by reading all the little kids questions. And while surfing Q&A every now and then stumbles upon a question such as yours, and wonders where all the ladies in their mid 40's are, because us older men need love too. Click my Avatar
2006-08-17 12:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear the thought "it seems they all want younger women" from your mind.If you go in with a preconceived notion you will fail.There are many men out there in that age group that are looking for a good woman in their age group.Just be patient and keep an open mind.
2006-08-17 12:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can find true love at 40. And from what I've heard from my friends, younger men look for older women because of more experience in a certain area.
2006-08-17 11:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by zelmagraves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my man when I was 40. We've been married for 5 years now! They may think they want a younger woman but it's just an ego boost for them. My first husband was 13 years older than me and he treated me like I was an idiot. He's sorry now because I found someone my own age and am now very happy.
2006-08-17 11:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by cazzi_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God, yes! A woman in any age bracket can find a loving relationship with a man in the same age bracket. Those who seek younger women are [I will not judge] not looking for their age.
You will find a loving man in his 40s, please be patient!
2006-08-17 11:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. Just get out there. Try dating services and ask friends to set you up with their husband's friends (that you like). Look for a man in his late 30s, 40s and 50s.
2006-08-17 12:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 43 yr old male who has dated women older, younger, and the same age as myself. I've never really given age much thought. If your attracted to some one age shouldn't be a factor.
2006-08-17 11:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋