i had this dream today. for some reason, i was ignoring my bf, and just hanging out with my friends. the weirdest thing was, that his best friend was hitting on me throughout the whole dream. i tried not to pay attention to him, but somehow, i felt attracted to him. that made me feel so bad, cuz i mean, it's his best friend, and i liked him better that my bf. (i even considered dumping him for the other one) i'm not really like that in real life. i would never do that. and that made me feel really bad cuz i had no real connection with my bf, but his friend made me feel different. after a while, he started to ignore me back. and his best friend stopped talking to me too. then i felt worse. he never ignores me. he's always there for me and everything. his friend i could understand. but not him. i guess i took him for granted. so what does it mean, and why do all my dreams are like this one?
2006-08-17 11:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's been such a long time since i've seen or talked about his friend. we used to talk once in a while, but i knew my friend was jealous that he payed more attention to me, and not her, so i tried not to talk to him. up until recently, i found out that she didn't like him anymore. and suddenly, all my toughts about him being repulsive went away.
2006-08-17 11:35:49 · update #1
It is a dream of attention deficit. In other words, you need attention from your boy friend or anyone.
bf's best friend = excuse of discontent, attention.
Yes, you are not like that in real life. You rather to out with your boy friend than his best friend. However, the meaning of the dream is not whether who you are going out with. it matters why you dream like that. Basically, you are looking for attention. You subconsciously dump your boy Friend in dream and that tells you attention is more important in your life. So, you projected the excuse in your dream to show you your own personality.
2006-08-17 12:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its cuz he is not right for u look if u feel like u have no connection then whats the use being wit him if u stay with sumone who u don't feel connected wit any more the good one will find sum one else and u will find yur self alone or with some one u don't have a connection wit thats my advice ther are plenty of other ppl don't just stick wit one just cuz u don't wanna hurt his feelings cuz yur ending up hurting yurs
2006-08-17 12:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's funny how dreams affect us. Our minds wander, There is something in the back of your mind about his best friend, subconsciously you are thinking about him, good or bad this is your minds way of clearing up itself
2006-08-17 12:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you do care about him and your body is urgenting for you to get him like he your perfect match
2006-08-17 11:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by nvnissay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you are gay.
2006-08-17 11:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋