Why am I so alone???

Question

Well....My story...is not really a story...I`ve always been a solitary person...But now my situation got worse.Well...i have a somefriends...But I feel more abandoned than I`ve ever felt before.I feel that my relationship with them is superficial.I don`t trust them...I don`t care about them...I just hate them all.Why can they be happy?Why am I not happy?Why am I not like them?One way...I think they are stupid.They only think about drinking...having fun...and that`s all...I feel so cold and empty....Why do they enjoy life and I don`t?It`s all gone to me...I am dead inside..And I`m alone...

Answer 1

Dont let your friends bring you down, it seems like you just need to surround yourself around positive people. You arent anything like the people you hang around. Thats why your need find more friends to associate with. Befriend people that are just like you, that way you know that you'll get along with them and they wont do much that will allow you to step out of your comfort zone. Lastly, remember that you are never alone.

Answer 2

I was there, where you are. My friends were okay as long as I was drunk or in party mode. The reason they can be happy is because they are shallow. They are running from something all the time, and if they were to contemplate the situation like you are, they would have to change and that requires thinking, feeling, and being less self centered- and all the actions that follow those realizations. You sound like you are about done. You have made the first step toward growth. You have to do something that makes a difference. Go to school, get involved in volunteering for a cause you believe in, join a church group, socialize with people of different ages and backgrounds. I am speaking from experience, because you sound like I used to feel, and my heart goes out to you. But I knew I had more to offer, and so do you. Give of yourself to deserving people, real people, and don't hang out with those same friends. I had to leave some behind- sometimes I wonder what they are doing now, but I really don't want to know because I have filled my life with people and things that reflect who I am. Also, when you are feeling alone, it is the perfect time to pray- God hears you. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

You are a lot more smarter than you used to be, believe it or not. You can't trust or put all your faith in people, especially your friends because in all actuality your friends are just people that are here today but gone tomorrow (not literally). People will always put you down whether they're your best friends or not because we are all human. You are also more MATURE and WISE than your friends. You say all they think about is having fun and drinking and you feel like you're way much different than them. Life is much more than just being stupid drinking and partying seriousily. Maybe you should just stop hanging out with them for awhile. Its a good change believe it or not. You don't feel so cold and empty nor are you dead inside! You just feel weird for being different from your friends who all they think about is drinking and being silly. Get some new friends!=)

Answer 4

Being alone is not always bad. I'm kinda a loner myself. I don't have many friends and most of the time I'm not happy. When I figured it out for myself I noticed it was getting worse and come to find out I was going through depression and I know everyone hates to hear that word but it was very true. It only took me 13 years to figure it out. Try to be positive that everyday you are able to wake up and go to school/work and you have no disabilities unlike some people who don't have that choice. You really need to speak with a professional to see why you feel this way and what needs to be done so you don't end up hurting yourself or someone else. I have been on med's for several months for my depression and I actually feel like I'm suppose to feel.

I hope things work out. Take care.

Answer 5

If you are depressed because of sheer loneliness, then you must realize that you are the only one that can fill that void. You come into this world alone, and you will leave this world alone, finding someone to share your time with along the way is a bonus. Join activities that you are interested in, you are sure to find people there who share the same interests. If you are suffering from clinical depression, that is a sickness that you can recieve help for. A doctor's office visit can offer you some help, and sometimes medication that surely get you feeling happy and normal again.

Answer 6

I use to feel the same way untill I realized we are not all the same. We have different personalities. In your case you are a good person. You are maybe a little better then them because you have firgured out that you don't want to do those bad things and I bet you are more mature in you work ethic and lifestyle meaning I bet you have your priorities straight better then most of them right? I had a bad problem with the same thing and I was so depressed and sad because I felt diffrent and felt every one else was better then me but I realized that my life was great and I looked at the person I was trying to be like and thought I am a little better then her in alot of ways but I had to stop that way of thought because that lead to jelousy and thats why we are not roomates any more and I realized she was my friend so I shouldn't feel that way. Well we don't talk anymore because of my jelousy and I learned to never be jelous of someone I think has more than me because you can have anything someone else has its called DERTERMINATION to succeed. She is a pices and I am a Aquarius and pices have better personalities but aquarius's have their priorities straight and that's all that matters. So don't worry, you can be what ever you want to be just don't sin and do things you feel are wrong and don't try to fit in because you see every one else doing it.

Answer 7

Yeah I have so many friends like that and I got married and have family and things change me so much and my friends don't know how to be a good parents and how to do things right and so I stop hanging around them and start finding better people. and you not alone, I can be your friend but my age is 35 and married and 2 kids and 3rd on the way in march. I just being open mind and honest with you. Again you not alone I can be your friend but it up to you to want to be a friend or not. By the way I am deaf smiling sorry my english not good.

Answer 8

I think you sound a bit depressed. But maybe your just more mature than your friends.
You should try and be more social. Maybe find some other friends.
What are your interests? Maybe there are clubs or groups that you would have more in common with.
Go spend some time at a animal shelter if you don't want to be around people. You can help animals and still meet people on a smaller scale.

Answer 9

You are never alone, you have options. Maybe you just dont have anything in common with these friends thats why you dont feel any connection. Try finding your own interests and doing things you want to do and maybe you will not feel that way. Maybe consider going for counselling, is there any chance you are depressed? Kind of sounds like it.

Answer 10

Sadly I feel the exact same way its hard. You have to live life walking on the outside. You watch your friends have fun and you wonder why you cant have fun like them. You find the stuff they do is stupid. You dont have anyone to talk to and there is no one to listen. Your all alone in your little world isolate. Not caring, and just getting so fed up with them. It makes you feel so out of place like your not supposed to be there. I hate the feeling but I live with it everyday untill I can figure out whats wrong with me. Sometimes I wonder if it is me. But just dont do anything drastic. If you need someone to talk to my email is [e-mail].

Answer 11

It sounds like me. Wow. that's weird. My friends only care about having sex, partying, and doing drugs. I feel the same way you do about them. I don't trust any of them. They enjoy life because they think that they can always have fun which is not always the truth. You're not happy because your alone and you can't trust anybody. I feel that way too. You have to meet new people and see where it takes you.