I have been suspicious of him with drugs...I decided to look around and sorta search in my sisters house...I found two bags of pot one bag of some kind of little green sticks like, pretty small. and a bag of some kind of mushrooms, all dried out ...and some pipes. was I wrong searching in her room to find this? what should I do confront him or what, I been noticing everytime he comes over he heads to the bathroom and stays in there quite a while...making me wonder whats he doing in there! He seems to be high a lot more now that previously. I am upset and don't know what to do if I tell my sister about this that I know she will be so out of it. I don't think she does any of them maybe very accasional! He is 19...what shall I do...?
2006-08-17 11:20:35 · 33 answers · asked by Marissa H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell your parents! now!
2006-08-17 11:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you'll live with your parents or not but if you do i think that you should notify them and your sister tell her first then tell them. so if she don't do anything then your parents could make him stop coming over. also piss him every time you find something then flush it. it cost money so he'll be mad that he has to go pay for more. now think what if some kind of emergency happen and the police or anybody for that matter come and finds the drugs. do you honestly think that he'll take his own charge. you'll could lose everything you'll own behind his stupidity. and if you don't live with your parents let your sister know and i hope you'll don't have any kids because they are definitely going to be trouble if the state finds out.
2006-08-17 11:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brownskinann II 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot let this continue. Confront your sister and take responsibility for invading her privacy, but justify it because of your suspicions. If this is your house you have that right. If its your parents home let her know that you will tell the parents if he does not remove his/her stash.
Not doing so can result in a much more serious predicament in the future.
2006-08-17 11:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a firm believer in letting others live their own lives and minding my own business. The problem is that people like this that want to break the law always seem to put others at risk. He can endanger his life and his freedom all he wants, just not in someone else's house. Tell him to get it out or you will have no choice but to involve the authorities.
2006-08-17 11:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by noname 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't say anything. You searched her house and snooped through all her stuff without her permission. If you tell her whats going on and she asks you how you know - she may be very upset with you because of what you did. She may also think that you are trying to sabotage her relationship. Odds are that if he is doing it in her house she probably already knows about it and/or is doing it too and you just don't know about it.
2006-08-17 11:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to get the drugs out of the house. If you were raided by the police its your sister who will go to jail and maybe everyone in the home. Its not worth it. If he is dealing he may be watched by the cops.
2006-08-17 11:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how you feel about spending time in jail and you will be the one with the possession charge if he's not there.Get rid of that low life or find you a place by yourself.Your sister is wrong letting him put you in jeopardy like that and he will get caught eventually they all do.
2006-08-17 11:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely tell your parents immediately. If the police had a suspicion and came into your home, all of you would be arrested. Your sister should not be involved with someone like that man. I hope you will listen and tell your parents and that they will call the police.
2006-08-17 11:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do think it was wronge to go through ur sisters house like that but maybe u should tell ur sister about it. but did u ever think that maybe she knows about it. most guys that do that there gf knows about it, or maybe she does it to. just tell ur sis that u where looking for something and found some drugs and ask her if she knows about it.
2006-08-17 11:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you weren't wrong to search if the house is yours etc..especially if there are children around ,,don't put up with that whatsoever, if its not your place then move if it is your sisters and yours both then explain to her that you don't want the crap at the house. if its yours only boot them out, kin or not.do you want to spend time in prison because of someones Else's drug usage, or end up 6 feet under because something(WENT TERRIBLY WRONG)
do whats right...do it now. and good luck
2006-08-17 11:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your house, or your parents? I would throw it out. If he can't find his stash he will figure out somebody caught on. But then youmight end up having to find his new stashes. If it is your parents house you do need to tell them. It would be very uncool for that guy to disrespect your parents like that.
2006-08-17 11:31:01 · answer #11 · answered by sabina-2004@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋