Theres this guy I use to be good friends w/ him. We were like bestfriends, then friends. And now we aren't friends at all. He doesn't want to be my friend again, but yet I still want to act like nothing happened and just start all over again. What do i do? I mean what do I say to him?
2006-08-17 11:06:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just from urslef be polite and soft ...dont be angry cuz u need to be different in this crowd ,,,,a day will come when he will realise his mistake and give u more value for this ,,,u must handle this situation in a tolerent way ok ....becaz o he dont want to talk dont bring ur ego in between just have pateince ...everything will be alright soon
2006-08-17 11:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by zeba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really complicated when you lose a friend, everyone figures that out at least once in their life, so don't worry, you are not alone. Unfortunately, you cannot do anything about it. This is your old friend's decision, and he's decided to move on with his life, and you should do the same. It's time for you to move on. I know that it is a very hard thing to do, but you have two choices: your first choice is to worry about him constantly, but he's not your friend, then you get very depressed and angry, or, you can move on with your life and start over again with another guy. Don't worry, there are always other people for you. There are millions and millions of people out there to be friends with.
2006-08-17 19:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation, give your friend a chance to heal his wounds. You cannot act like nothing happened at all because it will not be forgotten. Apologize to your friend and make sure you are honest and sincere as you can be. It is up to your friend to decide if he wants to forgive you or not. If he doesn't decide to forgive you, accept the fact that you guys are no longer friends, take it as a learning experience, and move on. If he decides to forgive you, you'll have to do whatever you can to gain his trust back and be a better friend to him. I hope my advice helps you. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-17 18:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that strange. because I have best friend and lost contact for almost 10 years just now 1 or 2 months ago she contact me and we talk alot. She and I are married and she has kids and I do to. and She just found out that I had crush on her and she asked me why did you tell me and why didn't you asked me out.. I did and you were tooo busy with your life and I rather to have best friend. If we did date or something I know that we won't be best friend. She has change so much but she notice I haven't change since high school haha same old person... so, I really glad to hear from her and we now still becoming best friend and glad that we didn't go out date or become girlfriend boyfriend smiling. I guess of god knowing what best for us.
For what he did and something not right. that not a true best friend. He might have crush on you or something try to tell you something or what ever it is.. ask him what has happen between us??? and he woul dhave to answer for you.
I really am glad that she still my best friend and my wife knows about her and already talk to her. and my best friend and I we do respect each other alot and no matter what. smilng
2006-08-17 18:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna share a poem with you, i dunno why.....just think it might help. i wrote it years ago.....
you gave me a vision
of what life is to be
you showed me the world
(what I was to see)
you promised me love
said you would always be there
to lend me a hand
to show me you care
we walked through the days
never rushing our steps
we cherished our time together
for the time was well spent
then suddenly one day
we weren’t there by my side
you were gone forever
but not a tear did I cry
i rushed thru the days
by myself all alone
cherishing our memories
although my anger has grown
then one day I stopped
and sighed a bitter sigh
the long awaited sadness
pierced my heart and I cried
i cried for the emptiness
that people have these days
i cried because I had a dream
and then it slipped away
and although I wouldn’t change it
in my heart I know it’s true
a lesson learned the hard way
was the price of loving you.
melissa
2006-08-17 18:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd like to hang out and if he keeps on saying he's busy or canceling, then move on.
2006-08-17 18:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on hunny. i know its hard but sometimes people just move on before you do
2006-08-17 18:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋