How can I prove to my husband that he is a cheater?

Question

I love my husband dearly but he is a cheater and wont admit to it. How do I get him to admit?

Answer 1

By putting him in a position that he can't deny it. Catch him red handed. And I wouldn't worry about him admitting it so much if I were you. If you 'know' he is cheating, instead of you just suspecting it, then what do you need him to confess?

Answer 2

You are convinced your husband is a cheater although he denies it. I'll bite, what is your evidence? In fact here is another question,
why do you want him to admit something which will only hurt you and destroy your relationship? What are you trying to prove and why? Suppose he relents and says , " you are right I've been F'ing your best friend for three months now ". What have you gained? You'd better wise up. Either this is or is not a problem we don't really know. The problem is you don't really know or you are trying to call something cheating which is not. For the record,
ITS NOT CHEATING UNLESS THEY TRADE FLUIDS! All the text,chat,conversation, instant message etc. although distracting, are not cheating. They aren't real smart but not cheating. Quit trying to brow beat him into an admission he is not willing to make because when he says,"I've been cheating", rest assured he's ready to go to her.

Answer 3

If he isn't willing to grow up and admit to it then he never will. Cheating isn't just physical contact but also talking about it as well as fantasizing about it is still cheating ( but that is a matter of belief ). If you have actually caught him in the act by all means get a photo and hand it to your attorney this will definitely wake him up to the fact he is being a worm. You don't have to divorce him but I strongly recommend marriage counseling for the both of you. Most people won't admit to being cheaters until they are actually caught in the process of doing it for fear of the reprocutions if they just willing admit to it. I hope things work out for you. Good luck. However, I don't recommend fighting fire with fire this could have a way of blowing up in your face. Besides why stoop to his level be a better person then him and give him a choice you or a divorce if he doesn't stop it.

Answer 4

If you dearly love a cheater, why even bother to let him admit it?

If you really care about it, go get a hooker to set up a trap for him, you'll find out the answer.

Answer 5

Your husband is a mendacity good for no longer something cheat. He does no longer deserve you! i do not study about the divorce regulations in Maryland yet regulation or no longer that's one ingredient i'd take into my personal fingers and are available across a fashion to get one!! If this womans husband is ignorant of his spouse being in touch such as your husband i'd tell him. Your husband is a awful pal and an rather self established individual. i'd call a criminal professional and study your regulations on your state or seem them up on the web. no remember what you won't be able to stay this way. suited desires .

Answer 6

He'll never admit it. Men have a way of 'defining' things so they aren't doing anything wrong. If you are with someone like this you have two choices...put up with it or leave. Unfortunately there isn't a middle ground because you can not change something that you won't even admit if a problem. Its the same as a drunk that won't admit he's a drunk, its a losing battle.

Ask him how exactly he defines cheating and write it down (it will come in handy later). Here is my definition...Cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your partner right beside you (if its not right you wouldn't do it with them looking) and/or anything that it wouldn't be ok with you if your partner was doing it (don't expect anyone to put up with anything that you wouldn't put up with yourself).

You could try giving him a taste of his own medicine, meaning that whatever he does that you consider cheating and he sees as ok for him to do he probably won't see as ok for you to do, so you do exactly that. When he gets offended and upset by it say oh but wait I have your definition of cheating written down right here and according to this I did nothing wrong. You can't say its wrong for me but ok for you so now what do you want to do about it? Its probably the only chance you have. You can talk to men until you are blue in the face and they just don't get it until they experience it themselves. Trust me I've used this system and it works like a charm!

Answer 7

He may never admit it, and even if he does, that does not guarantee he will stop! I had a girlfriend, and was a great wife to her husband, and every time she turned around, he was sneaking behind her back even with the neighbors, people at work, and he tried me too!! What a snake!! I told her he will never change and she should start looking for someone that deserved a good person like herself!

Answer 8

You ask how can I prove that he cheats. Well, unless he does you can't prove it. You sound like you've made up your mind already but you haven't proved it yet. With that attitude you're going to make him a cheater because if he's going to get blamed and punished for it anyway, he might as well go ahead and do it!

Answer 9

Hire a private investigator. Then, show him the pictures.

Of course, the unanswered question is - why do you want him to admit it in the first place ? If you're ok with him cheating, then there's no problem. If you really can't live with it, then don't - leave, and let him decide whether or not to modify his behavior.

Answer 10

if you know he is a cheater there must be some very credible evidence. that said if you know why must he admit. It sound like a lot of assumptions leading to devious plot.