2006-08-17 10:35:30 · 17 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh i want to go out with him though!
2006-08-17 10:38:21 · update #1
he knows i like him he told me he loves me but not to go out with me just realy like is that a good idea so we dont have to break up or hurt each other?
2006-08-17 10:52:12 · update #2
Move on! Start talking to other guys!
2006-08-17 10:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is back off and give him his space. Start hanging out with or dating another guy (make sure he is in on you plan so that he doesn't get hurt in the process) and make sure that this guy sees you with him. That's the oldest trick in the book! Make sure you don't act like you like you have any feelings stronger than friendship for your friend anymore though or this plan will not work! Jealousy is a low trick to pull but necessary in times of desperation and I think this is your only option. If this guy still doesn't bite, then he just isn't into you and you really must move on. Keep him as a friend though since old crushes make great friends, I still have 2 in my life after 18 years and I think we really make much better friends. Good Luck!
2006-08-17 10:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no count number what frinendship is something that you'll by no ability get board of. pay interest you're saying no to him and tell him this "i might want to by no ability enable a friendship flow for a guy sorry yet no" yet in a staggering way dont damage his thoughts, and flow tell your bff come on and tell her i might want to by no ability lose a friensship over aguy...... i'm hoping each and every little thing works out bye
2016-11-05 01:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with some other friend, maybe even try to date somebody. If that upsets him, then he will see that he really does want to take things to the next level, but if not, then just let it go. He's content being your friend and a friend like that you should definately keep!
2006-08-17 10:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can always find out why he doesn't want to go out. But don't pressure him into giving u an answer because if u do than he will start to act weird and maybe ignore u after awhile.
2006-08-17 10:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be sure is to treat him like a best friend, start talking about other guys that are cute and ask is he a good guy... that will tell you what you really want to know. Been there,done that, bought that T-shirt. so don't waste your time get to the point. If it's just friends hey then you got a best friend right?
2006-08-17 10:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he want's to be just friends and that's ok though . Maybe wait until he want's to . Or you can find someone else. You guys can still be best friends . Maybe he doesen't want to ruin what you guys already have .
2006-08-17 10:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me i thing and relationship should be and thing were u agree on ever thing and u will have debates but when it comes down to he don't want to spend time with you there 's something his not telling you and that's not and good started of a relation!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 10:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by jj slop36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wate him out love if it was mant to be it will happen and giving him a big kiss wont hurt
2006-08-17 10:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by 1 1 1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it up. He's not into you. If he was, you'd already be dating. Start dating other guys NOW! Don't get a boyfriend, just date them. Don't be a slut, either.
2006-08-17 10:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by tonevault 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋