there is this girl who has been in my class since preschool and im now going into 7th grade...shes in my class AGAIN...the reason im saying this is because she copies me and i dont want to be her friend anymore...i've had enough...whats the best way to tell her that i dont want to hang out...i've wrote a note to her in the nicest way last year, and she started crying!HeLp!
2006-08-17 10:33:52 · 25 answers · asked by lolli p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Report her to your teacher the next time she decides to copy you.
2006-08-17 10:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd guess that this girl thinks you've got all the answers. You know, that if she's just like you, her life will be perfect (or better than it is now). Are there new kids that you could start spending time with? Can you start hanging out with different kids (without being mean to this other girl or telling other kids not to talk to her)? Can you join some clubs or a new sport that she won't be in?
That's a tough one. It seems to me that you've been a kind person up to now putting up with her. The good news is that the higher the grades you go into, there are more people to know and most people's interests change so SHE may go off in a different direction.
2006-08-17 17:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by dashelamet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off does she have any friends other than you? If not then i can see why she would cry.Maybe she thinks your like best friends or something. I know that I was Friends with a girl named *Shelby* since we were in diapers. We actually were best friends but one day in 8th grade there was this sleep over at another girls house. Everything was going fine until she just quit talking to me....so i asked her about it. Finally after about an hour and a half of silence (from her side anyway) she starts screaming at me and saying that she doesn't like me. Saying horrible things like how much she hates me and how she doesn't want to be friends ever again. The other girl was *Corielle*. She said "don't worry. she'll get over it, I'm still your friend" then she went outside with shelby, called her mom and Said that they wanted to go home becuz I WAS BEING A *****!!! so see sometimes even breaking a friendship can hurt. I cryed everyday after that and to tell the truth that was the day I started to think Homocidal thoughts about them. (that is when you kill people)
2006-08-17 17:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't stop being her friend. You should try to work on the friendship rather than end it. If the only reason you don't like her is because she copies you then you should talk to her one on one when no one is around and let her know that you don't like that she copies you because it bothers you and that you want to continue to be her friend but if she could please stop copying you. You are in the 7th grade and when you get older you will find out that ending your frienship over that is not worthy because it is things people do worst than that to make you wanna end a frienship and trust me you won't want to do it in a nice way. I hope this helps you. Good Luck.
2006-08-17 17:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight out that you are tired of her cheating off you, that that is not good or fair for either of you since she is not learning and you are stuck doing all the work. Tell her that you need to stop being friends until she learns to do her own work and then you will reconsider her friendship. Then you make sure to stay away from her, if she is assigned with you on anything talk to the teacher or have one of your parents talk to the teacher so she can reconsider her grouping strategy.
2006-08-17 17:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by lightthenight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the problem that you don't want her to copy from you anymore or that you really don't want to be her friend? maybe she doesn't realize that you don't appreciate her copying. it sounds like you don't want to hurt her feelings so maybe you could offer to help her with the assignments instead of letting her copy. if you really feel like you need to distance yourself, be kind about it. i would avoid telling her "i don't want to be friends anymore" and make an effort to hang out with other people more and hope she does the same.
2006-08-17 17:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your friend copies you (I assume you may mean your clothes or hairdo), she is actually complimenting you. You don't have to be mean to her, just slowly stop hanging out with her. She'll get the message without your sending her a note.
2006-08-17 17:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ve been in this place many times... well the only thing you can do is to start getting away slowly there is nothing you can tell her cause you are going to make her feel bad.. just start making new friends and stuff and get away slowly...like just keep telling her that you can go out and that in school you have to say something to someone else and stuff...
2006-08-17 17:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Obviously you care enough to not want to hurt her feelings. I suggest you try and slowly ween yourself away from being around her. Stay courteous though and avoid being mean. Try and find activities that put you distant from her maybe this will help you reach your goal.
2006-08-17 17:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a very striaght up person. if i dont like a person that person knows.
just ignore her.
dont go out of your way to be nice or say hi or hang out.
just ignore her.
if she tries to copy you tell her to stop.dont do it if you dont want to. and even if you do want to dont. thats cheating.
just tell her you cant stand her cheating anymore. just becaus eim your friend doesnt mean you can take my answers.
then just ignore her. easiest way.
2006-08-17 17:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋