My names mike and im 17 right now, school is going to start on sep. 9 and ima gonna pick up my schedule on the August 28th. Whenever my GF calls and talks about things, she always has to bring up this schedule thing as she will be there too. There is a girl at our school who she think's i like and calls' her *****. On the phone i have to promise her no class with that ***** and one class with my gf. I have to physically go to the counselors office and do this myself. What would you do. .. BTW i went out with her for 1 year and 8 months. and im getting headaches now
2006-08-17 10:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by willie_wally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them both you need to pay attention to school this year with it being your last/next to last and really can't have them in class since they would be too much of a distraction, then wink at them. This way they won't have their feelings hurt. Then you have to decide which one, it either you want to date and let the other know that you aren't interested. If you aren't interested in either, use the excuse above, it will work for that too. Then, when they see you later down the road with another girl, it will be too late for them to say anything to you, all they will be able to do is b**** about you behind your back. And who really cares about that. They do that anyway! Good luck with the girls and in school. (Sounds like I'm signing you yearbook.)
2006-08-17 10:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the chains, pal, and do your own thing. There is no reason why you should allow this immature girl run your life. Start now by setting your boundaries and do what you feel that you need to do. I see trouble brewing for your whole school year. Either dump this chic or stop complainging......while she continues to make a fool out of you!
2006-08-17 10:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell insecurity..
It all goes back to you dude. Do you still want her or are you ready to move on ??
If you ready to move on, dont even waste your time trying to convince her to trust you.
If you still wants her then there's no harm to do what she requested. The moment you walk out of the counselors office,you'll earn another point of her trust.Over time,she won't be on your tail anymore.Hey,love does require sacrifice.
As long as she doesnt ask you to cut your hand or jump from a high building just to prove your love,then her request is still consider normal.
2006-08-17 10:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriend is alittle insecure. What do "you" want to do? Are you comfortable jumping through these hoops for her?
I would get rid of the "headaches", if you know what I mean ;)
2006-08-17 10:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is to drop your girlfriend. She kinda sounds like she is jealous of this other girl and if she is going to give you headaches now think of what thats going to be like next year if you are still with her.
2006-08-17 10:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds really controlling to me. She might be afraid that she'll lose you to this other girl. I would just tell her that she is the only one in your life and nobody else has a chance
2006-08-17 10:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im afraid this is pretty normal.
Either do as she asks and keep your GF or dont and break up.
2006-08-17 10:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mike, breathe. you have your whole life ahead of you. don't get out of joint. the sun will rise tomorrow if things do not work out, schedule wise.
2006-08-17 10:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little boy, no one cares about your pitiful life....
2006-08-18 01:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by mutterhals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do! Do I have to spell it out! B-R- E-A-K U-P
W-I-T-H her! DUH!
2006-08-17 10:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋