2006-08-17 10:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by adrenaline 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
get comfortable with yourself, but most people "with doubts" probably already know what they are.
2006-08-17 10:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are called questioning (because you are questioning your attractions sexual and relationship wise.) It's fine to be unsure at the moment and having to figure out where your true feelings and attractions are. I would say to think about it and go to good sites like the Human Rights Campaign or PFLAG to look into some of the questions you might have. Also you could look for a support group in your area or gay/straight alliance so you could talk about it with other people.
That commet about being bisexual being the easy way out was just ignorant. Bisexuals have just as hard of a time "coming out" as gay or lesbian people. Sometimes harder because they get heat from both sides about how they feel.
2006-08-17 16:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time getting to know lots of different kinds of people, and see where the adventure takes you. If your sexuality doesn't come to the surface by itself in due time, you're probably just not a very sexual person.
2006-08-17 10:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most importantly, be yourself.
You will understand who you are and you are ment to be, and who you will be.
Don't rush yourself, only then will you regret the time you wasted worring (trust me I know!).
One day the perfect person will come be it a guy, a girl, or something in between!! Just wait for it!
Hope it works out, if you need some support just drop an email!
~Roger
2006-08-21 05:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by vainpeacock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I'd do. Branch out, experiment. No, I don't mean have indiscriminate sex with any man or woman you meet; exercise proper caution. But it's okay to dip your oar on both sides of the boat until you decide what works best for you.
2006-08-17 10:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by nacmanpriscasellers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im Transgender. So as quickly as I even have each and every subject fastened i would be a straight away guy. yet for now in case you count selection my physique identification would desire to declare im strictly a lesbian. i do unlike adult males in a sexual way in any respect.
2016-10-02 05:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself and do not be afraid.
If you are gay you are gay
If you are straight you are straight
If you are bi you are bi
No need to doubt, just embrace and love yourself, no matter who you want to sleep with. You are special and wonderful and it is perfectly alright.
Yes, your family will have a problem with it -- so don't tell them intiially. Be who you are.
*hug*
Email me if you need to talk.
Kind regards,
Reyn
believienyou24@yahoo.com
http://www.rebuff.org
2006-08-18 03:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul searching, solo experimentation, experimentation involving different type of people if needed.. pray, and if all else fails counseling to help you understand your thoughts and or feelings better ...
2006-08-17 11:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. SIT DOWN
2. THINK LONG AND HARD
3. ASK YOUR SELF DO I LIKE GUYS OR GIRLS
4. ASK YOURSELF DO I LIKE SEX WITH GUYS OR GIRLS MORE
5. NEXT THINK OF A NAKED WOMAN
6. NOW THINK OF A NAKED MAN
7 NOW YOUR ANSEWR
GO BACK TO 5. & 6. WHAT QUESTION DID YOU GET WET /HARD THINKING ABOUT
THAT IS YOUR ANSWER
2006-08-21 04:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by crazzykid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People fear most what they know about themselves deep inside. If you're asking the question, you probably know the answer. Easy way out? Bi.
2006-08-17 11:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by anitahooker_transvestite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋