my gf went to mexico whit her family, my car broke down n i use to ride whit my cousin to work but he's moving out so i have to move too i told my gf about it n she got mad bc maybe im not gonna see her like b4 so she dont want 2 talk 2 me anymore bc she thinks that im gonna talk to somebody else, everything happen so fast, she was gonna help me 2 find something close to her but i dnt have more time, what can i do?
2006-08-17 10:22:59 · 31 answers · asked by gza_45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
beats me
2006-08-17 10:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by yowazup16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u really have is today, the now. Make a list of the most important stuff you have to do. Get a car! Or find a ride to work ASAP! Number one priority. Girlfriends, oh well...Unless she is "the one", and it sounds like she is NOT, that is your last priority! Do you also need to find a place to live? YOu better get your life straight before you worry about a girlfriend. Most girl's will dump you anyway if you are unemployed and homeless!
Don't drink, do drugs, or smoke; you cannot afford too!
Good Luck! Do eat more peanut butter!
2006-08-17 17:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wish i gave give you the best advice ,but all i can say is that give her something that's dear to you and tell her that you wouldn't talk to anyone else. tell her that because that she's the only one for you . And give her sometihng of your's that's dear to you and tell her that this is something for the only one you love. And keep in touch with her . Write to each other. Call each other and plan a schedule a plan which days or times to meet . I hope that everything works out.
2006-08-17 17:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is in Mexico right now and you hit her with this news she is pro ably just a little upset right now. Let her take some time to let what you have told her sink in so to speak..
At this time you have to do what you need to do to keep a roof over your head.
She is far away and probably feels helpless. Call her later and work it out..
Good Luck!!
2006-08-17 17:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for things online, and really she is some what stupid no offense but She stop talking to you because she doesn't want you talking to other people but if she stop talking to you what the hell are you going to do sit there in silence and wait for her to come back so she can get an attitude, just go online and look for apartments right now you just need to settle so if you see something close to her move there but while you are there look for a better place in that area
2006-08-17 17:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have given u the benefit of the doubt. Talk to her again and explain that you have no one on the side. If she still insist them maybe you are with the wrong person.
Look for an apartment yourself. Never rely on anyone but yourself.
2006-08-17 17:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a more empathetic girlfriend?
You have to focus on finding a place to live and fixing your ride. The negativity from your girlfriend isn't something you need right now; ask for her support and if she can't give it, you might need to figure out a way to sort this out without her.
2006-08-17 17:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a way to extend your time. If that is not a complete option then the best you can do is chat with her and try to visit her when she returns. She would have to understand given the situation.
2006-08-17 17:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by drkblueangel14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to pray. Things will work out for the best, I promise. I'm sorry you're having such a sucky time. I'd give you a hug if I could.
2006-08-17 17:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puppy love! find another girl and this will take your mine off of the other one. once she hear about the other girl she'll try to come back, don't let her you're the man. try to get yourself a car girl like guys who can come and pick them up, and not in a cab or coming on the bus. ten speed or something but get it.
2006-08-17 17:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to grow up and have a mature conversion. Tell her to stop getting mad and look at the big picture.
2006-08-17 17:28:38 · answer #11 · answered by Ruby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋