How do i surpess my humanity?

Question

I hate being human.i hate having feelings.I know that God
crated human.People say that its wrong to be a loner,but
i like it.why do humans have to have friends?Why loners
are frowed apond?I don't want to be human anymore.

Answer 1

there's nothing wrong with enjoying your own company. as a matter of fact, i prefer my own company to that of most other people. you've got to be your own best friend.

as long as you're the master of your domain, everything should be cool.

you are the master of your domain, aren't you?

Answer 2

I would focus on being human and not worry about being a loner.
I am a long time loner (41 yrs old) but I am proud to be human.
I would not tolerate feeling less than human, and I would go insane if I tried to be more than human.

Answer 3

Sorry man but trips to the moon aren't for now! If we are on a planet full of people, then it's not a desert island. Life's greatest challenge is to actually master yourself facing different angles of you through others as a mirror. You are actually saying that you don't like yourself if you reject others...I know it's not always a party but this is a school you will find beautiful if you remember that all people on earth are tiny little drops of water forming a vast ocean of love. If you withdraw from the source, you will evaporate!

Give yourself a chance,
Peace

Spaceman

Answer 4

Hi,
My heart is going out to you,at this momen,You sound so sad and depressed!
Once,I was like you,I stayed home and hid from the world.I only ate,slept alot,
read, and watched very little television.The only thing that kept me alive where my 2 cats,I love them so much and they where the reason I forced myself out of bed to give them fresh food,water and clean there litterbox.If ,i didn't have them inthat particular time in my life,I wouldn't be writing you this answer.I thought of many ways that I could comit suicide but than I would start thinking about my 2 cats again,where would they go,who would take care of them etc...
and all those thoughts of abandoning them made me feel awful.I didn't want them to be put to death because,I was being selfish and irresponsible.
During that time,I didn't shower,or talk to anyone except my mom and dad.
I would ask God why he would create such a lose like myself.I am nothing
but a big dissappointment to me and my family,I would have been better off dead.I had no self esteem and was terrified of my parents, & cats dying.
I hted being human,why couldn't I have been born a cat,than people would love on me,pet me....As for you.you enjoy being alone,and there is nothing wrong with that! Only if your thinking of ending your life.You sound young,and I
hope that I am not sounding like a broken record when I say to you: you have your whole life ahead of you.Isn't there anyone,that you would be interested in talking with: a peer,your mom or dad,a teacher or professor at school etc....
There has to be someone that you can relate too,going through the same thing. I have never heard any such thing about it being wrong wanting to be
alone al the time.Your on this Yahoo!answers and your asking questions,that is so awesome.It is a good start to learning how to communicate with people
from all over. I found an awesome Psychologist, and I talk to him every week on the phone.He saved my life too,he is another reason that I am able to be writing to you know.I have been talking too him since 1996,and he put me in touch with a doctor that gives me an anti-depressant ,and anxiety medication.
Both of these medications combined help me too focus,I am not depressed when i am on them,and too function .i actually can be around some people
without wanting to scream.I still need my alone time.I write in my journal(do you have a journal?if not,please get one ASAP.They are great for venting)and try to help people with problews on this website.I will give you my e-mail
address,just write me back,and let me know.Anyway,you sound like i use to be and i would like to help you,ifyou let me.take care of yourself.i really care.

Answer 5

Hate having feelings? to me it sounds like you are just a coward that is afraid of suffering to be a loner is good but even loner have feelings and are humans they are frowned because society can not survive if they become majority, humans are weak and without society they would have perished long ago. You only need to understand this life is a set of relations how you want them to be is only your responsibility and none else.

Answer 6

WOW!! I wish I could just reach out and change your heart.This bothers me to see another person feel so strongly against interacting with others.Though you have the right to.You can avoid having peresonal contact and relatinships with others if you feelto your not the first ,wont be the last.But dont allow dislike,hatred and mistrust to set in.Keep yourself open so your able to let people in when you feel the time is right.

Answer 7

there is no escaping your humanity, but instead try to improve on your humanity.This is what happens when you live in society full of hypocrits,religious fanatics,assholes,posers,and chronic liars who hate their life so much that they have to embelish upon their already horribly boring existance as to make others who share the same miserable existance feel jealous.people can't be people anymore,It would solve everything if everybody agreed to tell the truth and not be offended by anybody else's truth,total honesty is something I dream of but will never have...

Answer 8

You can choose to BE whomever you want. Simply realize that people perceive people in thier own unique way. Perception IS reality to some. If want to be perceived as someone else and not yourself, just don't act like yourself. It wont change who you really are, just the way others see you.

Answer 9

RIght on! I'm a total loner and want to be that way forever! I have about four friends, but everybody else makes fun of my otaku ways. I don't give a poop!

Answer 10

uhhhhh
welll
im a bit of a loner, but not that much so
uhhhh
i find that having friends keeps me from sinking too far into some sort of depression.
i think humans have feelings because ..... uhhh... i dont know why but everyone i know of has them, so i kind of figure its natural, just like breathing
the onnly way i could think of to end it is death