Me and my boyfriend have been going out since almost the end up 6th grade. Now, were going to 8th. I broke up with him 2 times already but we end up getting back together. You might say i can be messed up but i dont think i have feelings for him anymore and maybe he doesnt have any left for me. I want him to break up with me but i dont think he will because hes a really great guy but hes too shy and nice. what should i do?? help me please!!
2006-08-17 10:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by lilmizzjennie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you don't have any feelings left for him, why are you still with him? Think about it... if you don't want to hurt him, you're already doing it with this what you're doing. I am a girl, but I know that guys have feelings too.
Just break up with him if there's no love left for you two to share, that's the most fair thing that you can do. By staying in a relationship, you keep lying to yourself and to him, and it's hurting the both of you.
There is no right or wrong time to break up... when the feelings are gone, then it's time to break up. Obviously, it's your time to break up with him.
2006-08-17 10:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as if you are both in the "comfort zone" which means thats this relationship has the potential to go on for years without anyone really being happy. And you are only in the 8th grade! Don't wait for him be in charge, make it happen for yourself. Break it off with him and be assertive otherwise you'll get back together with him again. Take some time out away from him and then when you feel strong enough see if you still want to be friends with him.
2006-08-17 10:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know in your heart that you don't want to be with someone anymore. I think you should do the breaking up, since you're the one who feels that way.
Have some fun! You're much to young to be tied down in a serious relationship!
2006-08-17 10:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do 2 things.
One you can break up with him
two do something different with him. talk about different things you both haven't talked about. when you go out act different talk to him dare or play games while walking or on bikes whatever. Go for a change and do something fun and different and it will sound and be better for the both of you's
if you want ideas about anything just write to me and I can see what I can tell you or come up with.
2006-08-17 10:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Gloria (Madison) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to him, but also to yourself. I might hurt his feelings, but in the end you both are better of when you tell him that you haven't have feelings for him. Let him and also yourself go on with your lives and discover what more beautiful things it can bring. Maybe both of you will be happier in the end when you be honest.
2006-08-17 10:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by ngatinicostes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see a proper a time and talk to him everything about his feeling towards and u too say abt it ... make him understand that we cant hold the time and we must go on in our lives and we can be very good frds ...
dont try to say him indirect way or any act i think face to face direct talk is the way to communicate each other feeling
2006-08-17 10:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by zeba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. if you dont have any feelings for him, why keep seeing him? if he all of a sudden turns in to a good guy after you're done, you cant feel regret.
2006-08-17 10:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by ELLE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and tell him how you feel...you are both so young, dont commit yourself to a relationship...you have plenty of things to learn and discover in the future.
2006-08-17 10:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get up together it means that you still care for him even thou you don't realize. i think you should talk to him and see if he agrees with you! or maybe try to be a little distant to see what he's doing! i hope i helped even a little!
2006-08-17 10:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't feel the same way about him then u just need to tell him and not lead him on. u told him before im sure u can do it agian.
2006-08-17 10:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋