2006-08-17 09:46:12 · 22 answers · asked by NUAHS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've said it before here, and I'll say it again (last time, 10 pts.)...fantasy jar. Here's how it works. You get a nice size jar, a pad of pink post-its, and a pad of blue . Give her the pink ones, you sit down with the blue ones. Now, have fun. Write down some fantasies, on the BACK of the paper.fold it, so that the glue strip holds it closed. When the time is right (and one of you will know), pull one of your PARTNER'S fantasies out. Fullfill it. There is not ONE of my exes who can complain,...or does. Or did.
2006-08-17 09:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by longhair140 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By remembering that good nights follow good days. Women don't separate the two. Men can have a terrible day and their penis doesn't know the difference. In the beginning when sex was great you put effort in to the day to get there, same thing now. Depending on how open minded your wife is buying new toys and lotions can be great fun, reading erotic (not pornographic) stories to each other. Its really just about remembering that sex is more mental than physical for women.
2006-08-17 09:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
remember that this is the person you should be closest to
so speak to each other about how the love life is prob both fancy a bit more spice good book always a start will give you both a laugh if not some ideas
2006-08-17 10:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I shouldn't have done this, but I went out and found myself a woman by the name of MEG who was quite a NUT. A few hours with her and I became a brand new man! So, I guess if you're talkin' spices NUTMEG would be my answer.
2006-08-17 09:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erotic fiction, books, playing cards, toys, making home movies. Theres this really great book called 101 nights of great sex and each sealed pack is a different thing to do or act out to help bring in new and fresh ideas to your love life. Be creative and just go for it.
2006-08-17 09:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by happyvitale 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
start by having a shower together, use silky oils on each others bodies, then take your lady into the bedroom and talk for a while about what you both would like to do to each other, then take it nice and slow, give each other a sensual massage, explore each other like you have never done before, you will soon be uncontrollably entwined.................
2006-08-17 09:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by fossil 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dressing up, food sex, sex outdoors , all the naughty things you used to do when you first met.
Re enact your first time with her/him. go out to a place similar to where you met and re enact it the best you can. Romantic and exciting.
If you a bit kinkier, fetish clubs or swinging....not sure what your into.
2006-08-17 09:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough 1 Dude, recommend viagra,nice meal,bottle o wine, good luck man!!
2006-08-17 09:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Switch hands.
2006-08-17 10:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be unpredictable. Be passionate. Surprise your lover often. Use your imagination. Be outgoing.
2006-08-17 09:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋