Getting a divorce is NOT a very brave thing to do at all . Getting a divorce is the coward & quiter way out from the ordained marriage God put together until death. The hard fact remains is God does NOT make no mistakes .God is the ultimate match maker here , we are not . But we try to be match maker by committing adultery with getting second , third , fourth marriages in our lifetime. All of us should return to the ordained spouse God gave us in the first place.Look I was with my ordained lifetime who is abruseful & over-bearing toward me & my 3 precious kids but I would stay in my ordained marriage because marriage is what it is until death. I do NOT believe in divorce. So what about common sense . I have to live with my conscience. No one can hide from their conscience. My husband can't either hide from his , 5 years ago he went into an adultery relationship with my X-best friend and he wants a divorce now. He is going to hell with his girlfriend. I did not contradicted myself here.
2006-08-17 09:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even the Bible allows for Divorce however you are correct in that you can't remarry as it is adultery. Divorcing because you are being abused or not in love isn't against the bible or God, but you aren't to pursue another marriage either. the second marriage is where the problem lies, NOT the divorce.
2006-08-17 10:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by fourth_battalion_parris_island 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip. Why would you want to stay with someone who does not want you? Also even if you do want the divorce he can still get one. If you refuse to show at court you will be found in contempt and fined. Being a religious fanatic could have been what drove him to another chick in the first place. I see marriage as a contract between two people not three. I cant stand people who spout off about God, science has proven evaluation God is a myth just like the greek gods. Read a book besides the bible and open your eyes.
2006-08-17 16:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your right when we said I do, we said I do till death do we part, that means we have only one spouse, no matter how many times we divorce and remarry, THE FIRST ONE we married Is the one GOD honors, now we don`t have to live with the one we married, but if we remarry, its adultry. and The Bible says in matthew I believe chapter 19 that except for fornication, BUT fornication and adultry are 2 different things, one is sex before marriage, the other is sex after marriage, And GOD knew what he was saying, even if man tried to turn it around. GOD KNOWS THE DIFFERENCE.
2006-08-17 16:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you chose, then good for you. Stick with it. Just don't expect everyone else to do the same thing. This is YOUR reality, and YOUR choices...not everyone else's. People only see what they're prepared to see. And like they said, you reap what you sow.
Why do you have a need to keep posting the same thing? Are you just looking for someone to disagree with you? And for that matter, why did I even bother answering this question when I answered it the day before? Shame on me!
2006-08-17 16:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It´s not a cop out if the reason for divorce is physical or emotional abuse, or if the spouse is sexually or physically abusing the kids.
2006-08-17 16:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Double 709 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋