My husband and I both work full-time jobs. I work 12 hour shifts and my husband is an excutive and his job is very stressful and demanding. He is constantly thinking about/ and consumed by his career. He tries so hard to make time for everyone, and he is a great person, however sometimes I feel like he does not have enough hours in his day. He tells me that all the stress is worth it, and he just has to put up with it for now if he wants to continue to be successful. We are totally in love, and have a wonderful relationship. However, by the end of the day, we are just both so exhausted that we just want to go to sleep rather than be intimate. How do I spark up our love life? We both have an understanding of why things are the way they are, however neither of us know how to change it. Any suggestions. Please, only serious answers.
2006-08-17 09:38:19 · 13 answers · asked by star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You two have to take time off from work and spend it with each other. Period. No questions.
Plan a weekend together. Walk on the beach, make love, talk, plan your future. The sex will take care of itself once you make the time to experience each other as friends again.
2006-08-17 09:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just have to both commit to change. MAKE time for each other. The worst thing any couple can do in a relationship is not make time for each other. Sure, you may lose a bit of sleep but it is totally worth it. Take some vitamins, drink an energy drink if you have to. You can adapt.
2006-08-17 16:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable that the two of you are too exhausted during the week because of your jobs! But you guys do have days off don't you? If you guys do, then why can't you just show and give each other your intimate pleasures when you are not working! That will give you 3 days of pure hot pleasure each week!
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-21 11:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray to God he hears you and trust and believe that everything is going to be alright. Its totally okay to help others because you never know when you will need someone. Baby girl don't stress just have more patience and live life to the fullest the man loves you and true love is hard to find
2006-08-17 16:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a trip..go to another city and stay in a hotel just for the weekend or whenever u can get a day or 2 off. get a room with a jacuzzi tub, order room service, and make it a really special night.
2006-08-17 17:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do some sexual things to catch him off guard like when he comes home let him walk in on u masterbating and ask him for his help. You could also wake up an hour or two earlier and wake him up with a sexual favor. Something sexually spontaneous should awaken his sexual side.
2006-08-17 16:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by theelementgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said marriage was easy? It takes work and you both have to committ to making it better. Set aside the time and just do it no matter how tired you are.
2006-08-17 16:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by all4hoops2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur simply involved in something that has become a "habit", come home b tired and go to sleep,,,change the habit,,,go back to yesteryear,,show him who he met along time ago,,,dont get caught up in being tired, that is just mental. treat him like you did when u first met, come on to him like u used to,,,when u go to bed, dress up, men love a dressed up women,,,remember u must put urself in a position where he "can't" resist you, that is how men pick up women, they cant resist the way they look,,then take it to the next level,,,be creative gal,,,,,scorpion
2006-08-17 19:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by tone284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wake up in the middle of the night while he is asleep, give him an impromptu BJ. That will wake him right up and he will return the favor.
2006-08-17 16:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just need the serios answer.
listen to me my freind.
the best way to improve ur relation with ur husband is by using ur brain just and i think it is the best way to improve any relation in this ground. try to use it. maybe it is but really it is the most effective way.
take care xxx
2006-08-17 16:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋