2006-08-17 09:27:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
relax and enjoy who you are, and people will like that too! but, i've always said that if a person doesn't like me and would like me to change, or whatever, then to so what, it's their loss...i'm just gonna be me! we cannot please all of the people all of the time!!!
2006-08-17 09:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you aren't that nice.
I have an acquaintance who is also a co-worker and she is at heart a good person, but she is so very unhappy in her own skin that shows more than her kindness. She is very insecure and everything that happens around her is a conspiracy. So what happens, people can't see past her drama and are afraid to accept her friendship and kindness because they don't want to feel obligated and thus unable to tell her off when she is misbehaving, which is often.
If you are none of the above, then consider those people idiots and move on. Turn your energies to volunteer work especially visiting the elderly in hospitals and nursing homes, they'll enjoy it, you will certainly be appreciated and you will feel pretty good about yourself. You will soon forget your miasma
2006-08-17 16:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Notorious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't come across as nice or maybe being too nice makes people think that you're a stuck up B*tch. I have that problem when I first meet people. Down the road after I meet someone they always tell me that they thought I was going to be stuck up, and I'm not.
2006-08-17 16:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by missy146833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me too i try to make them laugh to have a good time but i never manage to do that maybe it's my fault i don't know maybe i try too much sometimes idon't even say my really feelings or what i think cuz i think that they won't like me Probably we should just calm down and **** them!!!These people r crazy
2006-08-17 16:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of people are face the same problem but i can understand u well and i think the best way to make the people love u and need u is by using ur brain and ur tongue in the same time. i usually this way and thanks for god i dont know anyone who hate me and he thinks in hating me. so i hope to you to be wide relation person with all my best wishes.
take care xxx
2006-08-17 16:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a nice person and easy to get along with and others dont like u that is there problem not urs if they do like u shouldnt like themm either because they are not that special if they dont like and try not to stress much abouot it
2006-08-17 16:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS IT YOU TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOUR NICE OR OTHER PEOPLE? CHANCES ARE IT'S YOU AND TAKE TIME AND WRITE WHY YOU THINK PEOPLE DON'T GET ALONG WITH YOU DOWN.. BECAUSE MAYBE IT'S NOT THAT PEOPLE DON'T LIKE YOU , IT COULD BE THAT YOU ARE HARD TO GET ALONG WITH ..
2006-08-17 16:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrrrl i have asked myself that 100 times. People love me on the phone. In person i seem to put them off. All i have to say is ...**** em
2006-08-17 16:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not as nice as you think. Maybe they don't like you because their jealous or something. You shouldn't waste your time worried about why people don't like you. I mean people didn't like CHRIST but he is king. Count it as their lost. Someone who is worth it will actually adore you!
2006-08-17 16:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by MajesticEm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't please everyone you come into contact with.
Perhaps you are both pretty & nice and they are jealous?
Girls or boys?If the awnser is girls,more than likely they are jealous and nervous that you get all the attention from boys.
2006-08-17 16:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋