2006-08-17 09:11:22 · 24 answers · asked by Sadaf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men is having tremendous pursuing ability. he will go after women with a lot of efforts and until he have her only. it is like Alexander conquering the world. he will conquer and conquer once he conquered he will leave the field and go for the new one. god crated one Adam and one eve. live with one is best is in god's plan. who ever break it , GOD will break them.
2006-08-17 18:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though people say they are happy they actually might be happy but cheating isn't just because one person in the relationship isn't happy. It's because that person is greedy. Greedy for the attention. They have someone that they are happy with at home , but yet they want more. They say they're happy, but thats because in relaity they are the only one in the relationship that is happy due to their greediness. They can't see the pain they're causing.
2006-08-17 09:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by sxykhmai22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their having affairs they obviously not happy with whom their with.
Affairs are a major destroyer of marriages and cheating is of relationships and it leave behind a lot of pain and devastation and destroys families and friendships in the process and none of this is a form of happiness.
When your happy with someone, your happy meaning of joy when you cheat that is a form of pain.
If they find happiness in cheating well so be it.
2006-08-17 09:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People never have an affair if they are happy in their marriage. (by the way you can only have an affair if you are married)
2006-08-17 09:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a matter of that old adage of "having your cake and eating it too." If this is the case, you should consider how much you can handle with a person who, for whatever reason does not have the desire to be monogamous. In another scenario, your leaving may spur this person to realize that a relationship with you is worth more than a fling. Just remember, you are too special to share or be shared.
2006-08-17 09:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Candilaria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of time it is about the thrill of doing what they know they shouldn't. They get a rush from cheating plus in some small way they feel that by cheating they have staked claim over their own lives and choices. It is all about the ego.
2006-08-17 09:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have open relationships. Sometime believe it or not can keep the marriage intact .Everyone is different when it comes to sex. I personally believe sex is just sex. Lots of people think sex is sacred. Theres nothing wrong either way you go. I know people who are swingers and they are happy as can be, but, its not for everyone as I said before. To each is own.
2006-08-17 12:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by adatude4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life becomes a bore ....you can be happy but normally it happens after a long marriage and it becomes stale ....then one may look for comefort that u have taken for granted for so long and u end up enjoying the company and attention someone else can give u ...trust me i know x
2006-08-17 09:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just in them to cheat. And plus, they just haven't got caught. May really love their spouse and don't want to give them up because they are good together, but they just have those cheating tendencies that they are not willing to deal with and give up right now.
It will take something detrimental to happen, like the spouse finding out and threatening to leave for them to quit cheating.
2006-08-17 09:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by WANDERER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are having an affair, they can't be that happy in their relationship, also I think they are selfish and inconsiderate.
2006-08-17 09:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were really happy, they would not cheat on you. Why spoil a good thing if you are happy where you are. And if they were happy and loved you, they would not want to hurt you in any way
2006-08-17 09:18:34 · answer #11 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋