my daughter is going to jr high schools any ideas to help her stay out of trouble?

Question

SHE IS REALLY INVOLVED LIKE SHE IS GOING TO RUN FOR SCHOOL COUNCIL, PLAY BASKETBALL, AND DO GARDEN WHERE YOU PLANT FLOWERS AND DECORATE THE OUTSIDE OF THE SCHOOL

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a very good daughter, it's always good if they are busy in extra curricular activities. But i would have a talk to her about peer pressure with smoking, drugs, and anything else people may want to force on to her. Even though we dont want to think about it there are a lot of bad things out there and it is good if you talk about any issues you want to cover be open and be willing to listen so she will come to you with any problems she may have.

Good luck!!

Answer 2

Sounds like shes got a good head on her shoulders.But like me, I also was a very good kid-untill jr.high.You get introduced to all kinds of things and lot's of peer pressure.I would suggest keeping an open relationship so she will feel like she can yalk to u about anything and don't ger too upset if she ask's you a crazy question.If she thinks u will be mad,she won't want to tell you.I would also put her on birth control.It's not saying that it's ok to have sex,but just to be on the safe side.You know their is always that guy she's gonna like and you know how young guys will say anytihing.You don't want to be a granny yet!Good Luck Mom=}

Answer 3

Your daughter is already headed in the right direction. I know when I was in Jr. High and all the way through highschool, I kept a steady job to keep me even more occupied. It helped me stay out of trouble. In Jr. High i played basketball, softball, and i ran track. When I got into highschool I was introduced to this club called The National FFA Organization, I don't know where y'all live but it helped me out alot. I was forever entered into some sort of contest, like Floriculture, with flowers, like your daughter. I was into public speaking, and Forstry,(the study of trees) and numperous other things. I was an officer from my 9th to my 12th grade year, which kept me occupied . My Jr year i started cheerleading, and i dropped basketball. I kept with Track and softball though. I also stayed with FFA. I was in other clubs such as BETA and FCA(Fellowship of Christian Atheletes). This kept me out of alot of trouble, yet my friends were gettinginto allthe trouble. Tell your daughter to make her own foot prints, to set an example for others, rather than follow in the paths of others' footprints. It will kepp her out of trouble. And make sure she keeps her grades up, this will help her out when she gets out of highschool and into college, or whatever she is planning to do. talk to her about getting a job, nothing that will keep her from her academic studies, jsut enough to occupy more of her time and make sure it's one where she can still have a life during the week and most of the weekend. Take it from someone who did, it works...

Answer 4

as long as you have taught her right from wrong from the beginning ,hopefully there will be no problems.but, remember there comes a time in a persons life they will make their own decisions, right or wrong.the only thing we parents hope for is our children will choose the right path. i taught my children all the same ways. when time came one chose the wrong path.i don't feel guilty because i started the child out on the right path.you have put your child on the right path, now it's her that has to make the choice.

Answer 5

make sure she stays involved - have her join sports and clubs because generally the kids involved are pretty good kids. this will also keep her from being bored and looking for a way not to be.

Answer 6

She's headed the right direction. Get her involved in a church youth group too (for morals and ethics among other things).

Answer 7

Let her do what she wants to do. Don't force her into anything she doesn't want to do. Most of all be there for her. Talk to her, let her know you are there for her. At this age girls will want to start drifting from their family to try and find themselves. Let her explore and be supportive. But mostly talk to her.

Answer 8

Chastity strap.

Answer 9

That should do.... if you sense some trouble, just add more sports.