How do you know that your husband is cheating on you?

Answer 1

Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse
1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
8) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

Answer 2

I think a woman can tell that their husband is cheating on them in several different ways. If he is always avoiding time with you and if he is always making excuses to go places with out you then their is a CHANCE that he may have someone else. If he seems to have lost interest in you sexually, then this could also be an indicator. BUT, I would say to trust him until he gives you a reason not to. And, whatever you do, don't nag him, men hate that in a woman. Just let him show you who is really is and don't make up something that may not be true.

Answer 3

You need to ask yourself what it is in the relationship that is missing that was there before, or that is there now that was not previously. Some of the ideas posted before are good, but here are the few that I feel are telling:

1. Are there any un-explained late at the office/have to travel on business?
2. has the interest in sex increased or decreased (sometimes the new person decreases the drive for the spouse or increases it to mask the infidelity)
3. goes to another room to take a call, locks the cell phone, or does not want you looking over their shoulder while on line. . .
4. argues or snips for the smallest of things

Ultimately you have to decide if your spouse is cheating (hire a PI, confront him directly, snoop around his e-mail/personal items) and if he is, decide if the marriage is worth staying in.

Answer 4

I would love to hear back from someone regarding the following behavior changes in my husband:

1. He travels a lot for business and never purchased items for me on his trips. Recently, he purchased some expensive hand lotion, followed by a bottle of perfume that I do not use and then very expensive earrings.

2 Next, he always dressed sloppy for work and I would have to tell him to get a hair cut. Now, he shaves his man parts on a regular basis. I think it is strange. He dresses a little better, but not much better.

3. Very protective of his cell phone and when he is on the computer.

4. Always had business dinner, but there seems to be a lot more recently.

5. Picks fights with me for absolutely no reason.

Can someone please respond to my concerns. I am considering hiring a PI.

Answer 5

1. Change in behavior
2. Less sex
3. At work a lot
4. Seperation- not with you a lot anymore

If you have a bank account together, check all the transactions.

If I had a feeling that my husband was cheating, I would investigate first.

Don't let him know that you have an idea.

Always get proof, for court

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!

I hope he is not cheating on you.

Answer 6

1. He is vague about what he does/did when not with you and not at work

2. He suddenly learns new moves

3. Not to be too graphic but you can often smell the scent of the woman...it's like pheromones or something, very difficult to wash off

4. Suddenly less interested in sex

Or so my girlfriend told me when she broke up with me. She was smart.

Answer 7

For some reason, you'll just know. Something changes that you can't quite put your finger on. It's like a sixth sense, womens' intuition, gut feeling. Good Luck

Answer 8

If he is sleeping with some other woman it means he is cheating on you. Now the question is how to find it. Its simple. Surprise them when they are sleeping together.

Answer 9

Certainly not from this forum, please. Some of the participants have given helpful tips, but finally it's your baby. Why not try out a good private detective, in case you can afford the same. He may be able to provide legal evidence. But again, it's your own judgment that takes over. You can also try out some trustworthy senior relatives of yours, who will help, while keeping matters confidential.

Answer 10

Go to a refreshing place and make yourself very pleasant - get that certified by a friend that you feel different. Come back home and change your behavior for few weeks and watch if he is not responding.