2006-08-17 08:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by blue eyes angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You feel it in your GUT!!!! If your asking that question, there must be some signs. Has his daily schedule changed? Has he been acting differently? Is he spending less time at home? Is he returning home with signs of being with another woman, such as smelling of different purfume, lipstick on clothing, crusty underwear? Is your sex life declining? Does he have a medical problem that is embarrassing to him that would make you ASSUME that he is cheating??
The bottom line is women just know!!!!
2006-08-17 08:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by bucyrus73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other answers you have been given. It does start out as a gut feeling. There are signs, the biggest one is a change is attitude towards you and your on marriage. Is he quick to yell at you? Does he pull away from your touch? Is he coming home later? Does he always have an "errand" to run? Has he become cold toward you? I was cheated on, it is a horrible thing to encounter with someone you are supposed to be sharing your life with. If you really want to know, you need to ask him, point blank, his reaction will tell you all that you need to know. If you have any other questions email me..I wish you the best. One more thing, Make sure you are prepared for the worst. Mentally and emotionally.
2006-08-17 16:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what it is in the relationship that is missing that was there before, or that is there now that was not previously. Some of the ideas posted before are good, but here are the few that I feel are telling:
1. Are there any un-explained late at the office/have to travel on business?
2. has the interest in sex increased or decreased (sometimes the new person decreases the drive for the spouse or increases it to mask the infidelity)
3. goes to another room to take a call, locks the cell phone, or does not want you looking over their shoulder while on line. . .
4. argues or snips for the smallest of things
Ultimately you have to decide if your spouse is cheating (hire a PI, confront him directly, snoop around his e-mail/personal items) and if he is, decide if the marriage is worth staying in
2006-08-17 16:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by g m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know him best. How has he changed? Is he standoffish, how does he talk to u, treat u. There are many signs:
Doesnt wanna have sex as much
Lack of communication
Buying gifts, etc for guilt
Buying new clothes, underwear,
Mysterious phone calls,
snaps at u
***makes U feel guilty for questioning him
2006-08-17 15:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you suspect something, then you might be right, but dont assume anything. Keep your eyes peeled and ears open, and if he IS cheating, something will come out sooner or later.
2006-08-17 15:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has been acting different than before if he is not telling the truth and is coming home late is not enjoy make love to you
2006-08-17 15:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by naj k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he calls you by another name when he's boinking you
2006-08-17 15:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are changes in his behaviour and how he is towards you...
or you could just ask him...
2006-08-17 15:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't other than intuition.
2006-08-17 15:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cannot, until you catch him.
2006-08-21 04:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋