My wife and I are having problems. I have recently found out that she has feelings for another man. Our friend is helping me deal with alot of this and I am starting to get feelings for her now. I cant stop thinking about her. To make things really weird, I have been getting letters from an unknown person, telling me about the affair my wife IS having and it appears that this person has an interest in me. What do I do to make all of this just go away and could it be our friend who is sending the letters?
2006-08-17 08:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is your friend who is trying to break you two up. Dump the friend and seek counseling for you and your wife.
2006-08-17 08:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sure that your wife is having feelings for aother man? may be she is trying to help him out of his problems.You also have not mentioned what kind of problems you are having with your wife.Just as this so called "friend" is helping you to deal with your problems, your wife must have been helping another man out.Just because she is helping you out in your problems,you are starting to get feelings for her.You are accusing your wife of having another man and here you are planning for a switch.It does not augur well.Its obvious the letter is from your so called "friend".She wants you to divorce your wife and come to her.Old trick.
First dont go in for whatever the letter say about your wife and her affair.Just sit down with your wife and have a heart to heart discussion.This will definitely remove your suspicion regarding your wife.The matter is between you and your wife.Why should a third person enter the scene?Its obvious that after the fight or problem with your wife the letters starts coming accusing your wife and at the same time letting the intention of the other person known.The "friend"is certainly the culprit.Just sort out all your problems with your wife.If you are not going to trust her who will?Just get rid of the "friend" and start loving your wife more than before. Your "friend"is certainly the culprit,out to destroy your family life.Who knows she might using you to take revenge on your wife,may be due to some bitter feelings.Just also confirm this matter with your wife.Go on.Get rid of the ill feelings you have about your wife and start feeling for her.Good luck.
2006-08-17 16:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop your lying. If your wife is having an affair and she told you, somebody should have left the house.
The relationship is no more, its gone, It has moved on, she found a bigger, better, faster and a last longer bozak.
You figure if you hit it with her friend, it would make her jealous, (Think about this) do you think your wife has told her friend how sorry you are in bed and how happy she is now. So, move your clothes out, so the boy friend can come in -- and be quick about it
Good grief charlie brown
2006-08-17 16:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned ? IS your marrige over? If not do you care to repair it? It could be anyone unless you have said or did something to your wifes friend to make her want to send you letters and what do the letters say about the affair it could be her if there are things that your wife is telling her that she could be the only one to know?
2006-08-17 15:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's better to confront your wife and find out the truth. If you decide not to work on the marriage then you can move one an date whoever you'd like. It's not a good idea to get involved with anyone while your still married.
2006-08-17 15:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a plane ticket and take off somewhere no one knows ya...
And anyone can tell you how to change your wifes feelings they must be God
cannot and dont try not worth it will happen again
been there done that
2006-08-17 15:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by candiesman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it 2 yourself,don't even let her friend think you're interested(if you cant keep from oozing when you're around her,dont be around her..).If you are in any way interested in staying with your wife,you'll bottle these feelings up until they dissolveTELL NOONE!!!
2006-08-17 15:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could end the marriage amicably, and start afresh on your own and see who comes knocking at your door...
2006-08-17 15:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a plot betewwn your wife and her best friend , they want each other lol
2006-08-17 15:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2006-08-17 15:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋