how would you tell a friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her with out getting her real messed up?
2006-08-17 08:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just got to break it to her easy! she will proberly thank you in the long run for it! if you dont and she finds out that you have knowin all along, she will be crushed!!!!!
2006-08-17 08:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just start off with please don't get mad but....i think or know whichever it is that ur bf is cheating on you. If you guys are really friends she should believe you although it may take a little convincing to her. If she doesn't believe with you point out to her that ur friendship is very important and you would never want to hurt her. Your just trying to be a good friend and you hope that she isn't really mad at you. Tell her you felt conflicted whether or not to tell her and you thought this was better. Tell her u wish it wasn't true but u didn't want to see her get hurt.
2006-08-17 08:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sputnik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the boyfriend & tell him that he need to tell his girlfriend that he is cheating tell him that you will give him a week for him to confront her or you will have to tell her. If he tells her then you can be there for her & If you have to tell her then she doesn't need to be with him anyways because you gave him the chance to be a man & admit his mistakes
2006-08-17 08:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lysa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... Just be honest, but also realize that love conquers all, so if she believes that she LOVES this guy... She might not believe you. So be prepared. But you must be upfront and honest with her. Thats what real friends are for... the good and the bad.
2006-08-17 08:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by canneverhavethis111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight out tell her. sit her down. and just be like, i'm really sorry to tell you this, but your boyfriends cheating on you. then make sure you don't leave her until shes better, make sure she understands that you were just trying to do the right thing.
hope i helped.
2006-08-17 09:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. I would talk about it with her first then just come out and tell her. if you wait its going 2 be worse if there is more time put into the relationship
2006-08-17 08:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can try to set it up that she sees it with her own two eyes!
i know that may not be possiable but be honest with her! she may be upset about it but she will see in the long run that you did it cuz you care!
then stand by her with dealing with the truth being out cuz i know she will need extra support and caring since she will be hurt by his doings!!!
Good luck!!!!!
2006-08-17 08:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Just ME!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her if she gets mad at you bcuz you are looking out for her..i know i wouldnt get mad if my friend came up to me and let me know....
2006-08-17 09:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Girl 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to tell her or you'll have to. expect her to hate you and choose him.
2006-08-17 08:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋