my girl is pregnant and i live to far to see her how can i help her through this plz help
2006-08-17 08:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by jimmywnj17 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Get a freakin' job! That was stupid!
2006-08-17 08:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tracey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean emotional support, you could call her everyday or every other day and just let her know how you feel. Let her know that you love her and that you are so excited that you have a baby on the way. Let her know you are there for her if she needs you. Make sure to tell her how you really feel. Definitely send her flowers or candy. Pregnant women love sweets. You could even send her a card that says you are just thinking about her.
If you mean financial support, you could always mail her checks or money orders or wire cash to her. You could even start buying things for the baby and send it to her. I don't understand, if she is pregnant and you are together than why do you live so far away? You should definitely visit her or consider moving in with her. A baby needs a mother and father.
2006-08-17 15:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest reading "What to Expect When you are Expecting". Go month by month with her pregnancy, and it will tell you what she is going through. Let her whine to you about all the sucky stuff about being pregnant if she needs to. Buy her gift certificates to restaurants with her cravings foods, or send her care packages with craving snacks. I would recommend being there for her u/s appointments and the one where she gets to hear the heart beat for the first time (around 10-12 weeks) bc that is not only exciting for her, but for you too! Show her that you want to be supportive and want to be a part of the process.
2006-08-17 15:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by bluedaboodee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do all of the above (go to see her when you can, send flowers, e-mails, call her) But you could also read up on it. know what she is going through, how the baby develops...all that kind of stuff. not only is it another topic to talk about that is always changing but she will know that you are interested in her and the baby and you honestly care about whats going on. If you can't be there atleast know whats going on. I know how it feels to be on the other end when i got pregnant the guy left me so i was alone on it. i just wish i had someone to talk to about what was going on with me and the baby.
2006-08-17 15:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by c.cibik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I really appreciate you wanting to support her and asking for advice, because alot of guys arent like that. I would suggest for you to check up on her whenever you get the chance, let her know that you are there for her, and you can try to financially support her by makin sure she has money for those doctors visits etc.
2006-08-17 16:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she knows you are there for her. Make sure she knows you are attracted to her and are not with anyone else. Go see her whenever possible.
Hope this helps. Gl to you and your girl. Gratz on the news of the new baby!!
2006-08-17 15:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by cenaldora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are old enough to get her pregnant be a mann and go to her. if you are in college dont mess that up but if the only thing holding you back is 1000 miles go!
2006-08-17 16:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of letters, emails, flowers, candy, phone calls and as many visits as possible.
make her feel that you are there for her as much as possible.
also, try to be there for at least some of the dr visits, like big ultrasounds or at least one time to hear the heartbeat.
2006-08-17 15:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send flowers, ecards, try to be interested if you are not really, ask questions, read up on what trimester she's in what she's feeling and talk about it
2006-08-17 15:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by oliviasincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub her feet, back, belly let her know you love her (if you love her) and make money so she wont have to worry.
2006-08-17 15:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her when she needs you. Call her check up on her every so often. :) good luck
2006-08-17 17:56:30 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋