my classmates tease me alot and tell me i m ugly and i m a nerd ,why do they do dat? how can i make em stop ?
Its not like i believe wat they say , i know i m very pretty and intelligent But it hurts when someone calls u names
2006-08-17 08:23:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its because you are pretty and different that they do that
dont worry when you graduate they will all want you
2006-08-17 08:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your picture it is obvious they are wrong. Usually people tease other people for a couple of reasons. One is that they are jealous. Smart kids often get teased because the other kids are not as smart and feel insecure. By teasing them it makes it feel like they are brought down to their own level. There are also people who tease other people just to get a reaction out of them. You will find people like this through out life. The tease everyone and then keep teasing the people who respond the most. The find some kind of sick enjoyment out of watching another persons emotional pain. Often this is just because they are also in emotional pain and seeing someone elses makes their pain that much less. Regardless of the reason the best thing you can do is simply refuse to play their games and let it affect you. If you show indifference or even laugh at their behavior they will eventually give up and move on to someone else.
2006-08-17 15:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If whatever im seeing is ur pic then its clear ur classmates dont have a good eyesight at all. they just want u to feel down and uncomfortable. But why at all u given them an ear when u know u r not an ugly or a nerd. Dont try hard to prove them wrong, just be urself they will calm down one day their own.
2006-08-18 02:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by eagertoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they mature, it'll stop. If you want, kick their a$$, but really there isn't too much you can do about it. Wait it out, put up with their jealous a$$es and once you leave school things will get better cause you will find people will treat you with more respect in the real world.
2006-08-17 15:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're beautiful. Don't let what anybody says get to you. Keep in mind, when people have nothing nice to say about you. It's because they are jealous. Jealousy is caused by envy. So obviously you have something they dont. They hate on you, cuz they wanna be like you.
2006-08-18 03:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times the people that make fun of you are the ones that are intimidated by you. You reflect something they do not have.Then they pick at you to bring you down to there level to keep you hostage,but your weapon is confidence in who you are and I don't mean stuck up.You must reflect a inadequacy in them.Stay strong in the things you know.
2006-08-17 15:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Class bullies, theres nothing like them, from what your picture shows, you are a very pretty girl (Beautiful) and to be honest does it really matter what they say? I mean its like that saying always goes
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.
DOnt let them get to you, it will be hard to make them stop, but learn to avoid them.
MOre or less they are doing it because they are jealious
because you are very pretty
2006-08-17 15:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because they are very inmature and insecure that they feel good when lowering someone else. i am glad you think you are pretty and intelligent. Just ignore them, cause whatever comes around goes around. be the bigger person and dont' pay any attention, cause if they see you care so much, then they are getting the best of u. forget them!
2006-08-17 15:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be tough! Say "Hey bitches you know Im so much prettier than you your just jealous so you make fun of me since you have no lives" Just **** those bitches they dont have anything else to do with their lives so they make fun of people that are better than them. And thats good it doesnt bother you. They just want you to feel bad about yourself. But dont let them just flick them off say **** it and leave! Ha thats what i do to the bitches that make fun of me. Be a ***** and they wont mess with you anymore since they will no it doesnt get to you anymore.
2006-08-17 15:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by age 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably tease you because their jealous of you. Or they're losers who think your prettier and intelligent, but they don't want you to know.
2006-08-17 15:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they are jealous of you...
I was teased in school..they called me a dog...but now when i see them they try and get at me...understand there are people out there who hate..never let THAT hurt you...let it make you stronger
2006-08-17 15:44:40 · answer #11 · answered by Daddys Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋