why do some women hit a man then complain they got hit back - they started the violence?

Question

i have seen his happen many times in couples with the women viciously attacking the man long before he responds to protect himself

I'm not agreeing to violence or saying people should hit each other just why do they start a fight and complain they got hurt as a result of them starting a fight

I'm four foot eleven and 3/4 most women are bigger and stronger than I am so men are bigger is a false argument

Answer 1

Because some women can fool people into thinking they are the victim and that make the man look a even bigger arsehole so she wins all round ,

i know Ive been there and wore the T-shirt .

women burned there bra's for equal rights but some like to revert back to the old views when it suits them.

I'm not saying that hitting a woman is right because Ive been brought up to believe that you should never raise your hand to a lady,

But Ive also learnt that nobody has the right to hit me and get away with it so if a woman hits me more than once she is no-longer a lady and she will be treated as a aggressor and dealt with accordingly and that's coming from somebody who was hit on a regular basis by a woman (my ex) until i change my perception on life.

Answer 2

As a single mother of all boys (3 of them), I have always taught my boys to never throw the first punch no matter what gender is starting sh*t. However, they better never allow a second punch from that person, again, no matter what gender it is. But when it comes to females, I do tell them to understand that they are generally stronger than the woman and should merely defend themselves over tossing her. Unfortunately, women cry for equal rights until they get hit by a man and then they whine. I say if a woman wants to hit like a man, then should take a hit like a man.

I just realised that I didn't actually answer your question as to why some women...... Sorry 'bout that.

Society has dubbed women to be the weaker gender and so some women use that to their advantage. IMO.

Answer 3

Men are physically stronger than women, that the reason why law is on women side,
Which is so simple if a man got hit by a woman(in the case of they have relationship together) he should walk away at the first time she did, not to response back.....unless you don't know her and she hit you in the dark or trying to kill you.
*I was in the violence situation(Physicaly and Mentally).
It happened once, I left and because of the baby I came back and told him I gave him this one last chance, then it happened again that's it...
We need to be firm with ourselves and others to do the right thing then problems will be sorted...'LEAVE IT OR TAKE IT' :-)

Answer 4

Well..I don't really give a rats asss if I upset any women with this comment but..if you pull back and hit a man LIKE a man, you deserve to get hit back. And they do it because they assume that a man WON'T hit back because "I'm a woman, he surely won't hit me".
Welcome to equality!
I know men are supposed to be raised to never strike a woman, under any circumstance, but thats bull. Self preservation needs to come into play at some point and when you are attacked, there needs to be some retaliation sometimes. Under the perfect situation, yes just walk away but you know what...some women need to have their jaws jacked. I know several.

Answer 5

Hi, I grew up with 3 oider sisters who did this alot. They would insult their husbands in front of their children, if that didn't work they would give their husbands an opened handed slap across the face," ouch "! After that their husbands would do what anybody would do, slap them back. Then my older sisters would call the police, Then they would call all of their girlfriends, to tell them all about it. Real women don't do that sort of thing. Women who do such things have unresolved conflicts, and need some kind of psychiatric treatment. In a relationship no one should be hiting anyone, its just not healthy.

Answer 6

Because they want to blame someone else for their own failings. They've not been able to resolve their anguish through discussion and as a result their frustration has overflowed into violence. The further complication is that they clearly want the world to believe that they are the victim somehow and want sympathy for the way they've been treated. Possibly resulting in them wanting their man to be punished for the way they feel. It's a genuine tragedy and a hateful way to behave. I think it's a bit; "look how rubbish my life is and how it's not my fault..."

Answer 7

I really don't know the answer, but I have seen it too. A guy I know got put in jail for pushing his g/f after she stabbed him in the back with a fork. And, not to condone violence against women or anything like that (all domestic violence is BAD), but if a woman is going to put herself in a man's place she should be treated like a man....btw...I am a woman.

Answer 8

at end of the day it all boils down to respect and wot your relationship is like OK a man should never hit a woman but a woman should never hit a man if so she should expect a slap back works both ways she could slap the cat or hit a door like men are expected to do!!!!some lasses think they can fight the world WRONG!!!!!!!

Answer 9

woman sometimes think they are bulletproof cos they "know the guy wont fight back"

I know guys who are really big (6 foot + not being dirty) and they refused to stand up to their tiny partners they just stood there and took it!

They physically just held them off til they got tired of it which means they basically get away with it

I'm a afraid to condone any violence but you've got 2 draw a line somewhere!!?? I wont start nythin but I sure will finish it!!

Answer 10

a guy has a remarkable to hit a woman in self-protection in basic terms as a woman does to a guy. yet earlier you respond bodily, be sure you think approximately walking away. walking faraway from a actual disagreement without hurting the different individual is an enormously gratifying feeling.