Not that there is anything wrong with that but I don't consider myself 100% gay--I think that all humans have an attraction for both genders, but that depends on which side the balance tips on
2006-08-17 08:13:59 · 30 answers · asked by ibid 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
oh yes, every day,.. If I don't notice a cute guy, I'll notice a cute girl. Which ever crosses my line of sight first affects what I'll be lusting for for the rest of the day. What difference does it make?
2006-08-17 08:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,I think your right about everyone is somewhat attracted to the oppisite sex.It just takes the right person to bring it out.That's what happened to me anyway.I am 23 years old.I have been married once and I also have 2 children.I never really thought I was bi-sexual.I always thought some women were pretty.But nothing out of the ordinary ya know. Then I met this chick-I had actually remembered her from school.I saw her a few times at a friends house.I remember thinking"What's wrong with me-I think this chick is hot!"Well we all knew she was gay.But I really liked how she carried herself.I couldn't lie to myself about how i was feeling.So I prayed for god to take these feelings away if they were not meant to be.Well I ended up moving about 30minutes away from town-got a boyfriend,that did'nt work out,then I met my girlfriend now of 7 months.And I couldn't ask for a better partner.So yes,I have found myself attracted to the same sex,and as long as they make you happy.I don't think it's a problem.
2006-08-17 15:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your speaking of has a "name" I just can't remember it right now. "Most" boys go through it from around the ages of 8 to 14 when they are at their height of suggestibility to "sports heroes" and "heroes" in general. Its not that they are being "molested or turned" but that guys in general just are INSPIRED by other honest, hard-working, exceptional athletes, musicians, scientist, and exceptional people. Who they "inspirition is" depends on the young man involved. Sometimes its simply the boy next door who is Captain of the Track team or the Captian of the Football team. They aren't "in Love" with them but instead "infatuated" with them. Kind of a "I wish I was them" kind of way. Since its impossible to trade places, they do the next best thing and just "think alot" about them. Its a crush, pure and simple, almost everyone on the planet goes through them at some times.
Many people get confused and think they're gay, some are terrified by it and others simply aroused by their feelings. Many times it can lead to sexual encounters with those they desire. However, this is not the true "desire" they have. Their true desire is nothing more than "healthy respect" gone wrong.
But, because of the "fear" of homosexuality and everything that entails, no one will "speak up" and tell children about the "feelings of hero worship to come" of their neighbors, friends and athletes that they will wish to emulate and be like. So, by being "close minded" they now open the door for children to experiment in sexuality and be even more confused.
2006-08-17 15:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember a while back when I was younger and I found myself attracted to guys. I couldn't place my finger on it as to why. I ended up acting on it and felt very guilty afterwards. After years of denial, I was honest with myself and accepted I was gay. if anything, I was a tough time back then but I'm a stronger person for it now.
2006-08-17 15:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14, and I still am attracted to the same sex today, at age 39.
2006-08-17 15:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by bumwiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12 yr of my age, I started getting errections and wet dreams, I was not sure what was that. I discussed with my best school firend. He had the same problem, So for one year, we used to study together and masturbate each other without even knowing what is that. We used to wait for time to be together and masturbate each other, But later we started knowing about sex more and got developed interest for girls. It all ended there. But still we embarass each other by remminding that time.
2006-08-17 15:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been romantically attracted to a guy... I've tried to see what is attractive about a guy just so I could maybe understand homosexuality... but I can't... Guys just seem so grubby and ugly most of the time. Even guys most women think are hot, I just can't see the attraction.
2006-08-17 15:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Greggath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is natural, but I think it is more along the lines of comparing oneself for improvement. If you have these thoughts recurring, I would recommend the following books:
The Silent War | When Good Men Are Tempted | An Affair of the Mind | Please Don't Tell My Parents
2006-08-17 15:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by KnowItAll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've only felt like that for my father or brother because I'm attracted to the fact that we share certain genetic information which makes extensions of each other.
2006-08-17 15:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH there was but it was just juvenile stuff, i think ive outgrown it, now all im left are fantasies with the same sex, lol dont judge! lol
i think everyone have some unbalanced levels of "luv" for the same sex , more girls than guys i think. but it just depends
2006-08-17 15:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋