2006-08-17 08:13:52 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, I would be less one friend and have an ex-husband.
2006-08-17 08:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know what it was. Your husband and your best friend were stranded in the middle of the night in a blinding snow storm. No No They got Marooned on a Deserted Island out in the Pacific some where....
It would take someone much bigger than me to forgive something like that... But its a thought...
2006-08-17 08:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the real villian here is your husband. Im sure he wasnt attacked a knife point and forced into it. In my opinion you cant have a relationship of any kind weather it be a friendship or a marriage without trust. If your friend and your husband are willing to EARN your trust again then thats fine but if they are not willing to try to rebuild that trust dont bother with either of them. If you get burned again then the gamble wasnt worth it and walk away.
2006-08-17 08:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Russ D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you know what? You seem a little Naieve asking a question like this? This isn't really something you should have others decide for you. You should ask yourself this question. Can you forgive your husband for sleeping with your friend? I find alot of people on yahoo Q&A like to ask questions about things they should really be trying to search for inside themself. I think you're being lazy about this subject. Which tells me that maybe you really don't care. That doesn't mean you don't care about husband and friend, but are you sure they care about you the same way? Ask your husband who you can sleep with now? Ask your friend if you can sleep with her husband or next new boyfriend? Follow them around and start sleeping with everyone they know. See if they're cool with it. :-)
2006-08-17 08:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would. You're supposed to forgive immediately. That doesn't mean that you let the person have any grounds to hurt you again. You don't have to be best friends and in fact you might not want to be friends at all. Forgiveness doesn't mean you trust them. You just don't hold a grudge. Also forgiving a person helps you as much as it helps them.
2006-08-17 08:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to forgive I know it's hard and i 've been reading all the answers - but it's ugly to have it inside of your heart - forgive both of them - and I know you will not forget "this" but you can start a new life - of course you don't have to have any kind of relationship with those people if you want it's understandable- but yeah forgive them and you will win at the end - trust me -.again it's not easy..to forgive it's rally hard. but it's possible and you will have peace...
2006-08-17 08:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I have no patients for forgiveness of this kind. I just recently dropped a friend of five years after I invited her over to my apartment, drove her here even and she spent her entire visit smoking pot with my boyfriend, instead of visiting with me. Just move on it is quicker and easier than hashing stuff out.
2006-08-17 08:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, she wasn't the one in a contract relationship. It's the husband you have to beat out of your life. If he'll cheat with your friend think of how many other women he would cheat with. He's just hoping to get caught going to your friends.
2006-08-17 08:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! She did, 10 years ago and I still don't want anything to do with her nasty @ss. You've got to be pretty sick in the head to do something like that.
My husband was only forgiven eventually because we had a family and I wanted my kids to have their father and mother.
As for her, she can rot in hell for all I care.
2006-08-17 08:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce the husband
2006-08-17 08:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by king_con 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a question is that? Are you serious?!
I will beat the s h i t out of my friend if she slept with my husband! I will literally, throw a television in her face!
OO heellllll nawwwww, my friend will be sorry to be messing around with my husband!
But I will forgive, but not forget, and not speak with her agian.
And my husband! He will be sorry for ever cheating on me!!
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2006-08-17 08:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋