ok well my friend says i can get boys to talk to me but she trys to getthem to talk to her butthey dont she also says i get more bfs they her! i say that is because i talk to them and get them to be my friend and then they start to talk to me and likin me. i told her thats because i dont try to beat them up i flurt with them if i like them. i dont know what to do cause i dont want her to get mad at me and not be my friend anymore. what should i do??
2006-08-17 08:00:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Congratulations! You're lucky to have that ability, but if you're concerned about your friendship, then go out of your way NOT to engage in conversation with boys she likes. And don't use that BS excuse, "I can't help it." because you CAN.
2006-08-17 08:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks you're so good at dating and talking to men tell her if she's up for it, you'll teach her some tricks of the trade. By your description she seems to be a bit of tomboy and probably aggressive, but shy. If she wants to be one of the boys that's cool, but if she wants to date one of the boys she'll have to play one of the girls. Girls don't hit, spit, yell, or act out in public. It's all about confidence too, that's why a lot of men are attracted to you compared to her. You're not worried they won't like you or desperate because you can't get a man. Just tell her to relax and take a deep breath. Any woman can have the man she wants with confidence. Your friend is obviously your friend because she has likeable qualities. Just tell her to use those qualities to get what she wants. And remember, desperation, anger, and pyhsical abuse, or the combination of all three are definitely turn-offs for anyone.
2006-08-17 15:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by rchl782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to do what you do. If she gets mad that's her problem. If she can't be happy for her friend then you have 2 choices: let her go her own way, or help her to talk to the boys, maybe set her up with one.
2006-08-17 15:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little arrogant about this topic to be honest. I'd say start talking up yout friend to these guys and stop flirting with the ones she might like. Put her in the spot light by saying nice things about her. Be her best salesman! Even if it still doesn't work, at least she sees that you care!
2006-08-17 15:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur friend showed off her melons n tail to the boys, then she'd get them to talk to her too
2006-08-17 15:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should print this question out and put it in a drawer somewhere, then pull it out ten years from now for a good laugh.
Just enjoy being a kid while you can!
2006-08-17 15:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by sensfantodd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there only boys... they will come and go. If you want you can sit her down and tell her to watch how you respond when a boy talks to you and for her to analyze it and make her own moves... everybody loves someone that can act like themselves and not like their friends.
2006-08-17 15:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her confidence in what shes doing when she tries to talking to guys. Give her a chance instead of you rushing in there.
2006-08-17 15:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by jenncren0420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two just have different personalities, try and teach her to be a little different and try new things. Obviously what she's doing now isn't working for her.
2006-08-17 15:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a convent and become a Nun...
Nah, actually help her learn how to make friends with the boys. maybe she is shy....
2006-08-17 15:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds clingy and spiteful- like she resents you for having fun because she doesn't know how to have fun herself. don't let her drag you down- she sounds like an absolute bore anyway. lose her and find a girl friend who is more fun loving and cool like yourself.
2006-08-17 15:07:32 · answer #11 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋