I havent seen him for about 3 our 5 weeks and i am worred he might start cheating!! i dont know what to do he might be with someone else and i dont know about it cause i never see him( he lives out in the country and his mom is a very bissy women.
2006-08-17 07:49:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you haven't seen him in 3 weeks, he's not your boyfriend.
2006-08-17 07:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get him on the phone, or he won't return your calls consider it over and move on. I had the same problem when I was in college. My then boyfriend would never call and when he did it was usually late at night, he was always late picking me up for dates, and always had an excuse, and he just didn't try to keep the relationship going at all. He actually could care less about the relationship. Sounds like the same guy right? Well, even though it may be hard just forget about him and you'll be better off. Trust me.....I'm the type of person who wants to know exactly what's going on so I investigated. Needless to say, he was cheating, and what's worse is that he cheated on me with his ex 3 months after they broke it off. When he found out I knew he totally avoided me and NEVER appologized. We haven't spoken since and the last time I saw him I gave him the finger and said "Up yours!"
2006-08-17 08:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by rchl782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you text, email, Im, talk? 3-5 weeks, you don't know? If he is so far away YOU don't know what he is doing, so don't assume you do. What have you been doing for 3-5 weeks to try to see him and communicate with him? Maybe he is wondering the same thing as you...and maybe if you are too youong to drive and stay in contact you are too young to make demands on others like "be faithful and don't even look at other girls." If you are apart that long and he is a normal teen boy, it took him, oh, a day or so to be looking around and planning his stuff.
2006-08-17 07:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by SuzieQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait did you say you've only been dating 5 weeks? and you've only seen him 3 weeks out of the 5? you need to calm down, this is not a serious relationship, it's way to early to be worrying about where it is going or if he will cheat on you or not. if you keep obssessing over it like this it will be a big turn off for your bf and he will most likely end up leaving you so just take a deep breath and do something to take your mind off your love life for a little bit.
2006-08-17 07:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know where you are or where you're going, get a GPS unit. Not too expensive at Wal-Mart.
By the way, I accidently just reported you for abuse. I don't know how I hit that link. I'm sorry. Just refer them to this answer. In fact I sent the first part as the abuse descroption. Yikes! and didn't realize what I had done until I saw the message informing me my email had been sent.
2006-08-17 07:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the old adage is long term relationships don't work. But sometimes they do. If your talking frequently and you feel the love is still there - hang in there and ride it out. If not, start looking and see what else is out there - maybe you'll end up in the same place anyway.
2006-08-17 07:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by DrMikeonCall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need someone that far awya and 5 weeks is to long boo unless you really love thins person and he feels the same way then I guess you are going to have to work something out.
2006-08-17 08:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The First question that I would ask is this: I would ask in my heart that I really care about this person? Then I would tell that person the way that I feel. There is no easy way to deal with dating on an international scale and I would say to you this: Follow your heart and do as it tells you and you will be happy.
2006-08-17 07:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by James Dean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. If he is worth your love, he will be faithfull and he will not cheat. You are a bit peranoid. If he has done this to you before, call him on the phone and ask him casually, as if it is not big deal, if he has cheated on you, if he says yes then kick him to the curb. Good luck.
2006-08-17 07:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a long term relationship dump him it NEVER works out trust me but if u can get ahold of him on the phone or in person tell him you need to know the truth now you didnt need yahoo answers for that advise you couldve found out yourself. good luck.
2006-08-17 07:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't seen him in 3 weeks the relationship is over... theres more fish in the sea (and the new boyfriend you;ll get would probally be hotter than the last one anyway). breakups are hard but you;ll be laughing in a month
2006-08-17 07:54:31 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋