my friends is a lesbian/ bisexual and she confessed this to me a while ago when she was having hard times in her love life and recently, when i dropped her off at her house, before she closed the door, she said that she found someone to love now and i jokingly said me? and she said i think its you and quickly closed the door. what does this mean! i am totally not attracted to her and i just think of her as a freind but i dont want our friendship to be ruined because of this. what the hhheeeek!!!
2006-08-17 07:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*friend, because i said friendS before so not to confuse you guys it is a friend.
2006-08-17 07:48:50 · update #1
Wow. that's a tough one. i have a friend who is completely in love with me, too. But I've found the best way to keep a friendship is to tell them how you feel, and then pretend you don't know about their hints, and what not. It's confusing sometimes, but I'd rather him think I'm stupid than hurt him...
2006-08-17 07:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Princess J9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe she feels a certain comfort with u versus her partner because you are friends it makes it easier to express herself to you. i also think that she loves you for who u are and not in a sexual way , that would be more uncomfortable for her i think. ask her what she meant when she said she loved you. I love some of my friends but not in love with any of them LOL. so maybe she's just very fond of your friendship or there may be a hidden crush. sit down with her and get it out on the table so that the next time she says it you'll know if its because you are the best friend anyone could have or she got this crush thats not mutual . take care of it now so it doesnt grow into something uncomfortable to you. This is just my opinion and i hope it helps. Good Luck on getting the answers u need.
2006-08-17 08:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have friends and we say we love each other but we are definitely not bi and we are straightly for men...but i would not let this friend get the wrong idea at any point...i do not agree with bi-sexuals or lesbians or homosexuals...i really think i would just cool the friendship if it was me...but that is because i think we are known by the company we keep...but you can really care about a girl friend and not have any sexual intentions at all...a lot of times it is said to but it just means you care about this person...hopefully she does not have any other intentions...but i would make it plain to her if you do decide to hang around with her...
2006-08-17 07:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is bisexual, and we tell eachother that we love one another all the time. I am straight, Just let your friend know how you feel about it and if you love her tell her that its only in a friendly way.
2006-08-17 07:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok that is a tricky one , maybe your friend was just joking.But if she wasn't u have to let her know that u don't feel the same way about her.If she is a good friend she will under stand.
2006-08-17 07:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she loves u mayb u should talk 2 her explain 2 her that u r str8 n u just want 2 b friends but n the nicest way
2006-08-17 07:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by kncgurl4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will have the means to love you no count what you do. I even have had a chum for 18 years, and at Christmas time, she gave me a cutting-edge, the call tag stated, "out of your chum for existence". that's what the unconditional love ingredient skill. be chuffed that she feels that way approximately you, and shelter her.
2016-09-29 09:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you think of her as a friend, not a girl friend. If she is a true friend, she will understand. Tell her that you hope that you can still be friends with her.
2006-08-17 07:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~sexy*girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety if this is your fried just be honest ~ pull her over and tell her that u know shes feeling you but it doesnt really float your boat. Let her know soon before she cant stop thinking about you and then it gets too crazy. She'll get over it trust me.
2006-08-17 07:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. well this is like when the girl like her guy friend and the guy doesnt like back. just tell her you are straight and just want to stay friends and you hope that she can understand. a true friend would. good luck!
2006-08-17 07:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋