ive had probs with orgasm myself, the only thing i can say is focus on the pleasure first, don't worry the orgasm will come when its right. Try reading romantic novels, they tend to get you wet, thats a start. Stimulation starts from teh mind then the nerves and thus your body responds, if your mind is not there or your too giddy it won't work. watch a porn movie, they have a few free vids on the internet, or go on the sex chat lines, ull always get a hot guy looking for some enjoyment, you'll be surprised by what they say and more surprised when you find your self being turned on by it. Once turned on,your only half way through the journey, begin to rub your clit or rub it against something smoth, try gettin into it, mind and body...trust me ull get yout orgasm and some..lol
2006-08-24 12:26:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Most women are unable to have an orgasm till their 20's and 30's. Its just physically impossible until then. I know that I can only have one if I'm in the "on top" position. This includes masturbation.
2006-08-25 08:39:44
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answered by ncladams 3
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This is not a dumb question. Be sure you are in the right frame of mind and stress free. Feel sexy before you start. Be completely naked. Tweak your nipples and caress them. Try to get them firm and hard. Put a little mineral oil on your clit. Start caressing it gently and slowly. Take your time. Don't rush. Continue gently until you get a real good feeling. Then do it a little faster and increase until you just can't control yourself. You will cumm and have a wonderful experience.
2006-08-25 05:24:06
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answered by Dwayne 3
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1.) adam and eve online (can buy vibrators and have them shipped)
2.) STOP focusing on have an orgasm and focus on the pleasure
3.) some people can only have it with direct stimulation ( clit only)
or maybe only intercourse ..
do you know what an orgasm is?? or you sure your not having one..
next time just focus on what feels good.. masturbation is not all about the orgasm as it IS about the pleasure you feel
2006-08-24 18:16:26
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answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5
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How old are you ?
Its nice to know about your concerns and need for proper Orgasm. Did you try using some toys, cucumbers, banana etc?
Mosit the clits and start rubbing them till they are dry and numb.
I dont think this is proper place to tell you everything.
Write back with your email.
I will try to help you.
aarveesy@yahoo.com
Best wishes
2006-08-25 01:27:26
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answered by itsme 2
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if you have tried for that long and got nothing, then you are trying too hard, or dont know your body very well. you have to relax and put yourself into the right mood for it to begin with, and then find the right places on your body that makes you feel arousal. you must learn your body first and foremost. then work toward orgasm. teach yourself what feels good to you...
2006-08-23 23:04:25
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answered by Anonymous
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ok this is the true key to female oragasm. all a female oragasm is, is rubbing the clitteris until its numb. Sometimes you will feel as if you have to urinate just before your about to well you know. Anyway try to go pee before masturbation. relax yourself and go to work. Making sure your good and wet before you start to misage the clit.
2006-08-23 18:18:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Vibrator hon! Never fails
2006-08-17 14:51:59
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answered by Peanut 2
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u can purchase them online.... rocket pockets are the best! U cant possibly live in a town where there is none.. that is hust un heard of.
dockjohnson.com
2006-08-23 14:30:17
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answered by michelle b 4
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Women are very rare having orgasms until they are in thier late 20s or 30s. You need to wait. It will happen be relaxed and patient when doing it.
2006-08-22 14:43:44
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answered by big pappy 3
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