My two best friends don't get a long anymore. They used to be friends but they are too much a like anymore to get a long. They get mad at me when i hang out with the other so when i do hang out with one i have to lie to the other so they don't get mad. My birthday is coming up and i want to celebrate but i want both of them there and they won't come because they know that the other will be there. What can i do?
2006-08-17 07:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by laugh_a_lot2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't get in between thier fued but let them know for you on your birthday can they atleast pretend they like eachother if they don't do it then their not your real friends because your real friends will try to make you happy o your birthday.
2006-08-17 07:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LIE! Just because these 2 can't get along doesn't mean you should have to chose. Spend time with both of them. Do not allow one to speak against the other and let them both know you are friiends with each of them and will continue to do so. Keep it real and be open and honest. Don't let THEIR feud become your feud.
2006-08-17 15:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them if they really care about you and your feelings they'll suck it up and deal with each other for a day. Just be civil and polite it doesn't mean they have to be best friends or friends. Or you could say the best gift you can give me is to be civil and polite to _______ at my party because I want you both there to help me celebrate.
2006-08-17 14:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont yu have 2 birthday celebrations so then yu dont have 2 have the hassel of them bein bitchy nd yu get 2 have 2 good tymes 4 yur birthday personally i think yur lucky because yu get 2 have 2 celebrations which i wud lov 2 have.
2006-08-17 14:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋