WHat does he get out of it? Girls, do your men do it too?
2006-08-17 07:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, my man doesn't do that but each person is turned on by different things. I guess his is name calling?
2006-08-17 07:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your husband is calling you these names in bed, I think it's time for you to move away from the relationship. Sounds like he is entertaining deviant fanasties. Which hints at what's really going on in his mind, sexually. You really don't want a man that is harboring hateful, degrading ideals about women. At some point in time these notions will make thier way out of his head and into the real world, resulting in all types of unacceptable behaviors.
If you do not want to end the relationship, I strongly urge you to get him some counseling, to get to the root of why this is pleasurable for him.
2006-08-17 07:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by shelly b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very disrespected in your shoes.. but the main issue is.. how does it make you feel? Is it a turn on or turn off? Does it make you uncomfortable? Or does it excite you? Does it hurt? It doesn't matter what he gets out of it. Since you call it "weird," it makes me think you're a little conflicted about it. Consider how those words might affect the relationship in your eyes, if at all, and address it with your husband accordingly (if at all).
2006-08-17 07:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He married Sylvia, it really is an usurpation. it truly is particularly disrespectful, you shouldn't answer anymore. you've a acceptance, he should recognize it. it truly is you. Names have a ability on those who positioned on them. you should strive against for this, it truly is not wide-spread. any further, commence calling him "Gregoire" for instance, he received't be happy. yet i do not imagine you should commence playing this sport. You were incorrect to settle for to be talked about as a acceptance it truly is not yours understanding that you weren't satisfied. learn the lesson and enlarge it in all parts of your existence. i'm satisfied, the" Sylvia" call's driving you nuts. strive against for the right to be YOU as TIL-de; it truly is the call you've been given. And in case your husband or his relations won't be able to settle for it, i do not recognize what you nevertheless do there. i do not even understand. If it occurred when you married him, i guess he has an affair or you're a rebond. If it all started earlier, it truly is even worse than i assumed. besides, strive against for the right to be talked about as via your own call, no nicknames.
2016-11-05 00:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't know about you, but if it were me, I'd let him know that his foul mouth is doing nothing for your sex drive.
Let him know how it makes you feel to hear that. If you haven't said anything about it before, he may think that it's a turn-on for you like it is for him.
2006-08-17 10:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend tried it once after I mentioned "trying new things" and I hit him. He was just trying to be creative but it wasn't working for me.
2006-08-17 07:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by xskeptictankx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants u to dress like a whore.. but i saw an episode like that on sex and the city.. it was the only way for him to get his nut....
2006-08-17 07:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance better not ever call me something like that!
that would make me mad and ruin the mood!
2006-08-17 07:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reciprocate with double strong doses against him.
2006-08-17 07:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are one?
2006-08-17 07:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋