Basic Truths About Men and Women
Such as how men and women cannot just be friends. It isn't in the cards, because of hormones and genetic programming. The character played by Billy Crystal in the movie When Harry Met Sally was absolutely correct when he told Meg Ryan that men "basically want to jump them, too" (that is, have sex with every woman they meet). Sneakiest are the guys who say they want to be friends (especially those whose advance just was rebuffed). There simply is no such thing.
She also needs to understand that men and women respond to each other differently for a reason: Men fundamentally are polygamous and women monogamous because of the genetic imperative driving all of us to reproduce. You see, it takes only a few minutes for a man to transmit his DNA forward (less, in some cases), but a woman requires 9 months at minimum (and more, to ensure survival). That difference has led to the eternal double standard. Men know what I'm talking about, trust me. Men have to work at marital fidelity a great deal harder than do women. The only thing that saves the vast majority of men is lack of opportunity.
2006-08-17 07:34:30
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answer #1
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answered by Kirk M 4
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Males give females more about which to be suspicious? Actually, I don't think there is a difference between genders in this case.
2006-08-17 07:29:14
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Women tend to be the actual caretakers of children in our modern culture. When women are unmarried they are subconsciously looking for men who exhibit qualities of a good provider, husband, and father. They are suspicious for a reason: to weed out the men that they feel do not measure up.
2006-08-18 08:57:46
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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I'll tell you why. It's because we analyze situations more than men do.
When we fall, we fall hard. Usually thinking about the guy for a long time and so on and so forth. Then all the situations that could possibly lead to us getting hurt goes through our minds.
The mind of a woman would be a fickle thing to men, because men and women, as they say, are like water and vinegar. /:
2006-08-17 07:33:21
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answer #4
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answered by Slippers 4
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Due to the system configuration difference between the two.
2006-08-18 16:53:15
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answered by mkm 4
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i think u right insercure but males give females reasons to be this way
2006-08-17 07:28:42
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answer #6
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answered by mantrell m 1
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because us chicks NEED to feel secure. we NEED to fell love! and if we dont get it we start to think its because you guys have someone else and normally its true...either that or we just like having control over our men hehehe lol just jokes...its just a self-protection thing i guess...us girls hate being hurt but dont worry some of us arent like that lol
2006-08-17 11:35:12
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answered by xXxLil-D3viLxXx 2
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Because males cheat more.
2006-08-17 07:31:58
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answered by sheeny 6
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because the guys in our past have left their mark on us to make us wary of all the others that will follow.
2006-08-17 07:28:57
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answered by stacy 4
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because feel more for males.
2006-08-17 08:44:23
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answered by prince47 7
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