2006-08-17 07:08:50 · 17 answers · asked by Robyn D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes time to fall apart and it takes time to heal. He needs to learn to let go and when he does bring up the past he needs to discuss it in a calm manner, not "well I remember when you did this and that.." Automatic fight starter because it puts her in a defensive mode. And for her I'm going to quote a book. Called Grace for the moment."The single most difficult pursuit is truth and love. That sentence is grammatically correct...Love is a difficult pursuit. Truth is a tough one too. But put them together, pursue truth and love at the same time and hang on baby, you're in for the rie of you life. Love in truth. Trouth in love. Never one at the expense of the other. Never the embrace of love wthout the torce of truth. Never the heat of truth without the warmth of love...To pursue both is our singular task."
2006-08-17 07:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard to say....depending on the circumstances....are there children involved. sometime we have to let go and let god. if you are in that relationship and you are no happy you need to first take self inventory. i know exactly where you are coming from, I've been married for 8 eight and we're going through a divorce now. you need to do what is best for you and your children if there be any. communication is the key to marriage; you you and your spouse don't communicate, that's where the problems and the complications are going to come in at.
2006-08-17 14:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by SEVEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have children? If the answer is yes they need to work it out. Seek counseling something, breaking up when you have kids is seriously bad for everybody and selfish. Maybe they just need to get back to basics spending time together and talking.
2006-08-17 14:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dala C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it is time to call it quits. If he is living in the past let him live by himself with his memories.
2006-08-17 14:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit while you can still be civil to each other once you have tried all to make it work. Look for someone else that may make you happy.
2006-08-17 14:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you, I beleive in trying to work it out. But I come from a long line of family togetherness and no divorce is worth it.
2006-08-17 14:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only work if you really love each other and are willing to talk things out, get some counseling.
2006-08-17 14:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself...do you want the next 10 yrs to be the same?
2006-08-17 14:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by juiceynookies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over.
2006-08-17 14:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits before somebody gets kilt!!!!
2006-08-17 14:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by jb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋