My in-laws are totally nuts and hate me!! my husband is trying to make everything all better with them since they turned on him as well but he dosent care if they include me anymore. Its him and my son they want and I am a piece of crap. I am tired of this. What should I do and how long should I wait until I just give up???
2006-08-17 07:07:26 · 15 answers · asked by fungirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never give up, just blow them off. It sounds like they will always have a problem with you, fight or not its probably not going to change. Express to your husband how you feel, if they want to see your son they can come to your home and pick him up for a limited time then they can drop him off to your door. They arent in charge of you and your family!
2006-08-17 07:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I think ur husband is part of all this, or he is not a man enough to handle it. I think u should not live with ur in laws. If its not enough for him alone find a job and support him. Listen to him and take care of him. This way u will save 4 things. Ur happiness, son, husband and in-laws. Else u never know what could come down the road. May be he is daddies child, make him grow with ur lv and support and do what is best for ur family.
2006-08-17 14:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by VJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why they are so mad at you. IN laws are hard to deal with sometimes. BUt you need to tell your husband how badly you feel, and how hurt you are. No one one should be treated that way. Dont give up, but if you have to stand up for your self and ask them point blank WHAT GIVES than do it.
2006-08-17 14:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if it were me I just would not go to any family functions. If your husband and son want to go...let them. You use that time to rent a movie, go out to a great dinner by yourself or with friends, go shopping...girl time!
I would not invite them over to my home unless they started playing nice with me. If they show up to public places, like school, to see your son and you are there as well...lift your head up high and do not look away...make them a little uncomfortable with your rightful confidence.
2006-08-17 14:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear don't cry over this you just be all that you can be as a good person but your husband need to let them know that your are apart of the family now if they never like you - you have to know for yourself that you are somebody - you were before they came along an d after their gone
GOOD WELL BEING
2006-08-17 14:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in-laws are hurting you too much, and soon if not already is going to hurt your marriege. Don't let that happen, you are not supposed to please them, you married your husband not his family. Either they accept you and treat you well or give them an ultimatum, go far away from them just you and your family. You should have to deal with this
2006-08-17 14:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i sympathize with u.your inlaws seem to be bad people.but maybe one day u can go and ask them as to why they do this to u.if they give a good enough reason try to improve otherwise just keep your distance-but whatever dont let your marriage get spoiled.love your hubby so that he loves u all the more.lots of prayers for u my friend.
2006-08-17 14:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't divorce him just because your in-laws are crazy. But you need to have a talk with him and tell him to fix it or else your in laws won't be seeing your son. Harsh, I know, but your in-laws sound like they need to grow up and act civil. Your son doesn't need their influence if they can't behave themselves like reasonable adults.
2006-08-17 14:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hungry lawyer and divorce the bum. Just make sure you leave him with nothing but alimony payments. If the in-laws have any money go for it too.
2006-08-17 14:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some way you can make it work? Maybe go out to dinner with them and talk; find some sort of compromise. For everyone's sake, try your hardest not to give up.
2006-08-17 14:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋