I have been with my husband for two years and hlf years we have really been through a lot of things we have two kids together a boy and a girl and my daughter from another relationship that does not exist. He has got up and walked out on us before maybe about five times or so but he managed to come back home he did not stay gone for too long but now it has been almost two months, He stayed gone at first for two weeks with out saying nothing, then he started coming back by he still says he does not want to come back home he just wants his own space the words he speaks to me and says are we have to stay from eac other for a while before he can come back home I have to give him space to think he does not want to come back and then us get right back into the same square, it does not mean there is no love, he comes every friday or Sat. to give us 75.00 and somtimes sex as well but not all the time Do you think he is really ready to divorce this time?
2006-08-17 06:59:15 · 13 answers · asked by crystallynbell82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you say he comes back every friday or saturday and gives you money and sometimes has sex. I do not think that he is ready to divorce you but I would advise you not to not trust this man as it looks as though he is just using you for his own conveinience.
2006-08-18 07:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by misterbig356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he sure isn't acting like a married man. He needs to be staying at home with you and working through y'alls problems. He does not need "space" that means he is going to be gone for days, weeks, months at a time. If he needs "space" let him go play golf or have a beer with his buddies but he comes home to you and his family because that is what a married man does. He sounds like a confused, selfish, immature young man.
My advice to you...if you want this marriage to work then you need to start with some house rules and he needs to abide by them. He doesn't know what he wants so you are going to have to tell him what he needs...you and the kids, right?
2006-08-17 07:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize everyone queefers, some during more inappropriate times than others. Although I have never heard of anyone divorcing over queefers. But, I assume if you had been eating queefers producing foods that you would be more apt at producing larger queefers that may have offensive odors. So allow your swallow husband his wish, there will be many other men who appreciate your queefers and love and respect you no matter the odor or the size of your queefers.
2016-03-27 06:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving him the control in the relationship? Does "he" want a divorce, what do you want. Do what you want and get on with your life. Next weekend accept the money for the kids and call a lawyer. He has to pay you, that is not "being nice".
2006-08-17 07:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by st pete rn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder, check Sam Vaknin's site and read the FAQ's. It's an eye opener.
2006-08-17 08:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is keeping you on the side , becuase he has a nother women on the side and if his new relationship does not work out he will still have a home to come too girl u need to set THE RULES
2006-08-17 08:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Denise D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u think im just a kid but my parents are divorced my mom is an acholic and my dad is a farmer and comes home and eats and goes to sleep he never talks to me or my sister and his wife is mean to us and he doesnt know but my mom and dad r in court and its really hard on me even though it happend when i was 2 but still always talk to ur kids and ask them if u do get a divorce and if u decide to marry someone else ask them please
2006-08-17 07:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by kaitlin e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU READY FOR? Are you going to live like this for the rest of your life? This is no way for you and the children to be living. Call the womens center for legal help.
2006-08-17 07:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you find him in your bed with a couple of hookers then you'll really know that he wants a divorce.
2006-08-17 07:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him is what I say.. he's probably doing another women while you patiently wait for him... and comes back home when he has a "low time"...
you deserve better... what about your dignity and self esteem !!...
2006-08-17 07:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋