relationship. the relationship is good just stressful things taking a toll on things.
2006-08-17 06:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by bigdcommingtoyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah I understand what you mean, me and my wife go threw the samething. First if you have kids, you need to get a baby sitter, or have your kids stay with someone, maybe you and your wife needs to get a hotel room for the weekend, just and her, go eat some where nice, or just go get ice cream, something that you can do to get away from the stress.
Stress is hard in every marriage but its learning to not worry about the things that stress you out that helps the most. If its work, leave work at home, if its finaces talk about it and get on a budget and then live off that budget and forget about it.
Its important that you work on your married, write her a nice lettter, bring her flowers, really make her know that no matter what you go threw, SHE WILL ALWAYS BE NUMBER ONE!
2006-08-17 07:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly with my marriage we have had a lot of stress! I have 3 children and he has 4 and they are all living with us. So once a week we go out just the 2 of us and hide somewhere (either a simple drive, catch a movie or sit by the water). It is very important to make your relationship work first, because if the two of you aren't connecting your children are going to feel it and they will also feel the stress. Just remember to make the time for you two!
2006-08-17 14:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shannan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and evaluate your situation. Find what is the cause of your stress and fix that before you work on spicing up the marriage. You can't spice things up when you have too much on your mind. If need be, go to counseling. Once those other things are taken care of your marraige problem won't need spicing up.
2006-08-17 14:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of having a strong relationship is dealing with those things...bills...children...schedules...in my situation I have a fiance' three children from a previous relationship and a newborn that's a couple of weeks old...one thing to do is establish a schedule and common responsibilities...he works 2 jobs one during the week and the other on the weekends...it works out for us because he works day hours and he is home to help with the kids in the afternoon...he helps with homework...cooking and cleaning....i also work(I'm on leave now) and this seems to work out for us...deal with what is needed now and at the end of the day sit back relax and enjoy you time with your bf/gf or wife/hubby.
2006-08-17 14:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some alone time with just the two of you. Try to laugh and be silly with each other. You would be surprised how much laughter can make your stress levels go way down.
2006-08-17 14:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marriage is one of the most important things ,make
time for you and your spouse even if its at Mcdonalds to
talk .avoid the cell phone because your stress will find you
its up to you and you spouse to tune out the stress. take
one step to change and make time and you will see the
differents. pray on the stress!!!! BECAUSE the battle is not yours.
2006-08-17 14:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )
It is a really good stress site.
There are lots of articles on all stress related topics.
I think you will find all your stress related answers there.
2006-08-20 00:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back. take one day and do nothing but spend time with your significant other. no cell phones, telephones, tv or anything. if possible check into a hotel under an assumed name and let your imaginations run wild.
2006-08-17 14:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the time, for peace of mind for both of you. Set a date.
2006-08-17 14:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a nice getaway weekend, but no 3-somes
2006-08-17 15:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋